I’ve been working at a beach bar for the summer and one of the female servers is extremely stunning to me in almost every way. Beautiful face, petite body, dresses very classy unlike the other younger servers, and she is extremely sweet. Doesn’t seem to be a partier and I’ve had a huge crush on her for a while but I’ve been too shy to really make it obvious to her simply because I don’t want to come across as just another dude hitting on her. I’ve never been very forward and in many cases the waiting game has worked. Problem is I’m running out of time.
Lately I’ve caught her staring at me in the corner of my eye a lot. She’ll ask me what time I get off, and she’s the only server out of the whole lot who has given me a piece of her tips for helping her. She often asks me for help over anybody else, and when we are not busy she will usually try to make conversation. Our conversations don’t get very personal, usually work related as I don’t want to come across as creepy asking personal questions.
I just can’t tell if she finds me attractive, maybe I’m missing signals or maybe there are none because she doesn’t think so.
I am asking you ladies and gents to help me out here, honest opinions. I know if I don’t ask her out before this summer ends I’m always going to regret it but I also don’t want to make a fool of myself with all my coworkers and make things awkward. Part of me feels like I already know she’d be interested but I suppose the other self conscious half of me is doubting myself.
Lately I’ve caught her staring at me in the corner of my eye a lot. She’ll ask me what time I get off, and she’s the only server out of the whole lot who has given me a piece of her tips for helping her. She often asks me for help over anybody else, and when we are not busy she will usually try to make conversation. Our conversations don’t get very personal, usually work related as I don’t want to come across as creepy asking personal questions.
I just can’t tell if she finds me attractive, maybe I’m missing signals or maybe there are none because she doesn’t think so.
I am asking you ladies and gents to help me out here, honest opinions. I know if I don’t ask her out before this summer ends I’m always going to regret it but I also don’t want to make a fool of myself with all my coworkers and make things awkward. Part of me feels like I already know she’d be interested but I suppose the other self conscious half of me is doubting myself.
