Female coworker invited me for drinks?

[Anonymous]

I recently started talking to a girl at my workplace who I kind of have a crush on. Its been about a week and she invited me for some drinks. When i asked who is all going she said two of our other coworkers who are all female but it might just be 3 of us total. She is going to be the DD.

Does this mean anything? I was thinking about inviting some of my male coworkers but then she would have invited them too if she wanted them to join us. I am a bit worried that while she's taking me home she's gonna have me spill my guts out or she might size me up in front of the other females. Would you take this as a sign of interest? As far as i know she's single but we dont really communicate outside of work either.

[avyfire]

Well if she specifically invited you it's interesting, either she wants her friends to bombard you/investigate you to see if you have any weird secrets OR she is expecting you to also bring some colleagues so that she sees how you can come with a little backup to entertain the other colleagues so you and her can spend time with each other.

Either way can definitely say it seems positive, maybe a fling or potential dating but take it as it goes, if her friends leave earlier and leave the two of you then you can definitely assume she is interested in you and is waiting for you to make the next move now that she already asked you out.

Have fun ;)

[Asker]

I liked your answer the best. No matter what happens itll be me with her for 30 minutes and ill probably have to crash at her place if i decide to get wasted. So it will be interesting. Right now talking to her i think she's trying to hold back her emotions but once in awhile she'll leak and yeah. Anyway it should be fun no matter how it goes. I can't buy you a beer but here have the MHO! cheers!

[OlderAndWiser]

This is a safe way for her to get to know you. She needs the safety of the group setting. Don't be paranoid and go have some fun!

[Anonymous]

It's possible that it's a sign of interest. But I will admit that's a little scary to me as I'm not into "orgies". Just be careful.

[Anonymous]

She wants the D.