Questions: Relationships

I used to speak with these 2 guys pretty often through an online game during COVID but since 2021 we stopped talking as often. I guess they got busy? I still play pretty often but I’m one of those people that hold grudges. One of them was conceited & said cocky stuff that rubbed me the wrong way at times while the other was just kind of there & acted dumb. I feel like I was the one that was in contact with both of them more often, they didn’t talk as much when it was just the two of them. We began talking less often & I didn’t see the point in keeping them on my friends list. One of them wished me merry Christmas but I left him on read. I deleted both of them from the game & social media, if you were them would you follow up? I guess not, maybe if you were closer to someone you’d consider it?

I learned this the hard way, so to me, nope!

A relationship has to have more than just love to survive! That's IF the love is even really there to begin with! And they're not just "loving" in a casual way! Or as someone on YouTube said: "Just Pretending"!

In a heterosexual relationship, I'm curious to know which option both sexes would choose given the right circumstances were in place.

I encourage you to consider what would make you feel happiest and most fulfilled.

Try not to worry about what other people would think or want you to say.

You can vote anonymously if it helps.

Women - please read carefully

How many of you would prefer to be a wife and possibly a mom, IF you were guaranteed the man would treat you with love and respect for what you do?

That said, your husband encouraged and supported you in your passion projects, hobbies and part time work if it's something you chose to do. BUT your family would be your FIRST priority and your work and passions come second.

That said, you aren't the main bread winner.

OR, would you be happiest having a full time career and just hiring a nanny or the man be the homemaker?

Men - please read carefully

If all of the above applied to you and you could chose to be the breadwinner or the homemaker, which one would you chose? Let's say hypothetically, we are still living in a "perfect" world still. And your wife and society would treat you with love and respect despite which role you chose. What would you chose?

We get so many messages on what we should or shouldn't do based on our sexe. In fact there are mixed messages and views on it. At the end of the day, I'm curious to know what people truly desire if they new without a doubt they could trust their partner and the social pressures and judgments are completely removed.