Questions: Relationships

The nerd: reads tons of books and talks about video games and movies. isn't very masculine. Kind of awkward but sweet.

The chad: hyper masculine. Tall with a large strong structure. Square jaw. Is into traditional masculine things such as sports, cars, and drinking with his buddies. Highly successful in his career. Has a high body count with lots of dating options.

The boy next door: nice looking, but more in an endearing, rather than sexually kind of way. Not tall, not short. Has long dark hair. Is kind and a bit mysterious. Genuine. He works carpentry and has a passion for custom woodworking, has a love for coffee, nature, and hanging with his dog.

The beta: the nice guy who you are not very attracted to but feel safe with. He gives you emotional support and cherishes the ground you step on. He's financially stable and don't worry about him cheating.

The sugar daddy: the old rich guy who you exchange sex for money. Purely transactional. He travels you around the world, takes you to the finest restaurants in the city and buys you nice things.

The starving artist: could be a sculptor, a guitarist, an actor, etc. Has talent but yet to be discovered big time. He is interesting and fun, but broke. He works a low wage job while hoping for his future. You have feelings for him, but have uncertainty.

Been seeing a lot of videos on instagram women crying about men putting their mother over their wife

Should wife come first or mother?