Questions: Relationships

Last year, I met a girl online who had never had a male friend before she met me. She had no previous boyfriend and never had a first love. She had a crush, however, she was not close to the boy whatsoever.

When I came across her, she was 17 almost 18. She grew up in a devout Catholic home and was homeschooled her entire life. She lived in rural Illinois.

We carried on an online "thing" for several months. A week after her 18th birthday, I went to visit her. She discovered I wasn't her type. I was crushed.

I am even more crushed now that she is engaged to marry a new guy.

But my question is, do you think that was the last chance I had in finding a decently attractive woman without a romantic past?

Like, he makes our son food when he's there, he puts out clothes for my son and he takes my son's dog out and cleans the hamster cage. All while my ex is out cheating on him likely.
Poor guy. I can't help but feel like he's actually helping me raise my son. There's times I pick up my son from school and I'm like "Mike better have taken out your dog because I wanna go straight home today." LoL!
Is it bad that her new boyfriend is kinda my worker or servant now?

I tried dating apps and tried liking other girls in person, but I have strong feelings for the girl that I’m interested in right now. I’ve never felt this way about anyone else before, until now. We’re great friends and see each other all the time. This feeling is new to me. There’s something I’ve been wondering. Do girls her age usually change their minds about someone older who likes them, if they didn’t like them before. Hopefully, I’m being clear about all this. I’m sure, I might have chance to be more, than friends with her down the road, when she’s ready for a relationship with someone. I’m hoping I do because she’s special to me.

I'm talking when the husband is still willing and able to have sex with her when she wants it.