Is it bad that sometimes I see my ex wife's new boyfriend as my servant?

[Anonymous]

Like, he makes our son food when he's there, he puts out clothes for my son and he takes my son's dog out and cleans the hamster cage. All while my ex is out cheating on him likely.
Poor guy. I can't help but feel like he's actually helping me raise my son. There's times I pick up my son from school and I'm like "Mike better have taken out your dog because I wanna go straight home today." LoL!
Is it bad that her new boyfriend is kinda my worker or servant now?

It's good, you mighty as well get something out of this dumb situation.

It's bad because poor Mike is getting cheated on probably and he's become the maid, dish washer and nanny.

[Anonymous]

I mean, that’s one way to put it I guess

[Asker]

Her latest boyfriend really has made my life easier. LoL!
Now I can actually have some time with my girlfriend and I'm not just living around my ex's schedule.

[iBeowulf]

The son will grow up more like her boyfriend (s) than like you. We get what we deserve, eh?

[Asker]

Nah, I raised him from when he was born. I still have a good relationship with my son, but it's funny to me that my ex has a new sucker basically.
He actually helps me out.

[iBeowulf]

It's about hours spent and subconscious activity. They're obviously better than you, because they have you wife.

[Asker]

My ex is a crazy person. She cheats on every boyfriend, this new guy is basically a cuck now and doesn't realize it. My son actually feels sorry for him.

[iBeowulf]

Rationalization won't change the subconscious landscape. You're just the sperm donor and pay pig now.

[Asker]

I'm his father and I always wanted to be a father. My ex wife is just a crazy person I stay away from.
Now she cheats, and she yells at this new guy and bosses him around. He's crazy to stay with her and even crazier to help me raise my son. He's got two kids of his own on the other side of the country that he has nothing to do with.
I got away from my ex, I still have lots of time with my son, and I got a free babysitter for when he's with her.

[iBeowulf]

Only fools reproduce in captivity. You are, like your ex, interpersonally exploitative. Your son will be the same, but worse.

[Asker]

You sound like a very stupid person who's trying to sound intelligent.

[iBeowulf]

Cope

[Asker]

You're trying analyze something that's beyond you.
My life is what it is, and I'm just surprised that I'm in a better situation now than when I was with her.

[iBeowulf]

Her son will grow up more feminine and primitive, statistically speaking. Coping is a crutch.

[Asker]

What are you talking about? I still see my son regularly and he knows his mom is crazy.
He knows exactly what she does and he's nothing like her. This new cuck boyfriend is just one of many roommates she's had to cook and clean for her because she's a nasty person.
I'm just letting this guy be babysitter until he gets tired of my ex wife. I'm making the most of the situation.

[Asker]

My son's a teenager by the way. That's why it's strange that this guy does everything for him to stay on my ex wife's good side.

[iBeowulf]

Your seeing him regularly means nothing compared to daily, constant contact. He'll just be an amalgamation of his dad and her boyfriends.

[Asker]

That's life. What am I supposed to do about it, I have shared custody.

[iBeowulf]

Marks gonna mark.

[Asker]

You really are kinda fucked in the head aren't you?

[iBeowulf]

Other people look. I see. I'm a seer.

[Asker]

You don't see much if you can't even find a shirt.

[iBeowulf]

Clothing is for rich people, mark.

[Asker]

Let me guess, you're living with some single mother, you're her cuck and you're taking care of somebody else's kid.
That's a Mark.

[iBeowulf]

Take it easy, mark. You're a G. I. Joe and he's a Ken doll, but you're both at her service. I saw this coming as a boy and won't commit. This is what you wanted, Marky Mark.

[Asker]

You think you're Dr. Phil or something?
I wanted a son, I got one. I'm in a happy relationship now and I have no contact with my ex.
I have a feeling you're quite offended by what's happening to her new boyfriend because it's probably you situation.
I'm sorry if that's your life now, it's not something I would want for anyone.

[iBeowulf]

Oh, I won't smash and dash or commit, because the financial and legal risks aren't worth the potential rewards. Yes, I disagree with your looking down on him, a kind rando trying to make it in an anti male society. He'd have married a virgin and been a farmer, in times past.

[Assi2k]

You're obviously jealous

[Asker]

I'm not sure about that.
We've been apart for 5 years, she's a terrible person and I'm in a happy relationship now.
I guess I'll always be a little territorial over her because she is the mother of my child, but it does make me feel some level of satisfaction that her new guy is basically working for me.
She treats him terrible according to my son, which isn't good, but he could always leave.

[Hangry06]

I mean your son actually got a good Daddy.

[Asker]

Wait, who said I'm not a good dad?