Polls: Relationships

Like in your dreams they cheat on you but irl they haven't but you still feel traumatized or angry about the dream and take it out on your partner?

If you've never done that, have you ever had that done to you?

here's some reddit posts i saw that made me think of this question lol https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/hrvo59/my_gf_is_mad_at_me_because_of_a_dream_she_had/

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/vrz009/gf_keeps_giving_me_shit_for_cheating_on_her_in/

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/j0dfon/my_partner_gets_genuinely_mad_at_me_when_he_has_a/

https://www.bustle.com/p/why-you-get-mad-at-your-partner-for-things-they-do-in-your-dreams-56973

Just FYI you should never unconditionally love and respect someone who is a legitimate abuser and/or cheater. Nor should you unconditionally love someone who has no respect for you.

I say “legitimate” abuser because some people have made broadened out what is and what isn’t abuse. One example would be Jonah Hill’s ex girlfriend her so called “emotional” abuse allegations over Jonah’s texts. That wasn’t “abuse”. It just wasn’t what she wanted hear. All she had to do was say “well that isn’t going to work for me” and walked away. She wasn’t a victim or a slave.

But anyway most people should know what is and isn’t legitimate abuse. But do women expect more out of men then vice versa out when it comes to this?

For example women seem to demand more respect from men when a man breaks up. But when a woman breaks up with a man he’s usually expendable so anything goes on how she treats him during the process regardless if he did or did nothing wrong. Respect is optional.

Same goes when a polite man approaches her and she’s not interested. Society tells her it’s okay to be rude. But men don’t get that leeway when the roles are reversed.

This morning my buddy Adrian came over while my girlfriend was in the shower. My girlfriend came out of the shower to say hi to Adrian. Wearing just pants with no shirt covering her breasts with her left arm. I told to go back and get dressed and she went and hugged Adrian topless. Adrian and my girlfriend both laughed and said I’m being insecure. I was really pissed about this and blocked Adrian’s number and looking for a new place to live. Am I overreacting?

Or is that a no for you? if you are to live with your partner it should come with plans for marriage too? So However long it takes, as long as there are some plans to get married at a future date I'm ok if we are living together.

If you are married try to answer as if you are not.

I have seen a lot of insecure people get upset about a partner having standards and boundaries.

So here's the situation, basically this girl and I started talking platonically online. We're both pretty bad texters. We spoke for about a year until we met in person. We had two fantastic dates where she expressed desire to have a relationship with me.

In the time since those dates, she told me that she doesn't want a long distance relationship but has said she wants us to contact each other if we are ever in each other's area. The communication has totally died to the point that she doesn't respond to my incredibly occasional texts. I recently graduated from law school and she couldn't even be bothered to send me a congratulations text when I told her.

There's bad communication and then there's this... this is just pathetic and insulting.

Part of me wants to call her out on this and ask if she wants me to stop texting entirely, the other part thinks I should just assume she wants me to piss off and just let things go.

Together 2 years

She complained of pain in her vaginal area week ago

She bleeding dark red quite a bit multiple days during ovulation phase

So I told her go see doc, she downplayed symptoms

I got off and buy full panel tests we take at home and mail off to lab. Could'nt be easier

She gets mad that I would buy them. She tells me she took one over year ago which I never saw any results for. Just more and more defensiveness.

I'm done with relationship as a result but curious if there is even one person who could see her behavior as anything other then huge 🚩

You can only choose one here. which of these to you is the most important?

Please note that by voting for the most important one to you it doesn't necessarily mean that the other things listed here are unimportant, merely just not as important as what was selected by you. So all of these may have some level of importance but one may take more priority for you over others.