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Do I have to be afraid that my boyfriend/husband will leave me for someone hotter once he has become successful?
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No, if he is a great guy he will never leave you. Loyalty is not based on his or her success or you found someone more attractive than your current partner. It depends on your relationship with your current boyfriend, is it good, bad or worse. If it's not working between you two or you two don't get along well then definitely he will leave you or you will leave him.
We can see tons of hot girls and hot men around us and on social media, doesn't it mean you will change your partners frequently? No, life is short. It takes years to build one relationship and seconds to break it, then it takes few more years to build a new relationship.
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- 1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
That is always a possibility... we can never predict the future. But if you two have a solid relationship, it is very unlikely, You shouldn't be "afraid" that it might happen, but you should do your best to maintain a strong relationship so that it doesn't happen.
Get to know him. If maybe there are signs then maybe. It's always a risk sadly. I sure hope that if and when I DO meet Mr. Right, he won't betray me like that, damn. .. But if he does, well, that's on him. That is what I have learned in life. You can only control yourself and no one else really. Relationships are ALWAYS risky like that unfortunately. And some women be homewreckers that don't give a shit who she is hurting and have the morality of a rock.
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If he has a social-climbing character and/or isn't the right one for you, then yes, he might be tempted. But many men don't, because they're a) not social climbers and b) in love with their wife or girlfriend.
Just look at Theo James, he's been with his lovely wife for over 10 years and has worked with many, many other beautiful women. But he's stayed with her.
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- 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Yes if you are insecure and nag him about it all the time then he will want someone else no doubt.
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In all honesty, I’ve seen that happening a lot.
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It depends on the quality of man you choose.
- Anonymous(36-45)
Keep yourself in shape and looking hot, give him blow jobs or whatever else he likes without being asked to, and make him feel like your savior but also let him see how essential you are to his success. Do whatever you need to facilitate that success.
Be just a tiny bit possessive, but never smother him or make him think you don't trust him. In fact, tell him how much you DO trust him every time it's appropriate, and how you know inside he's one of those guys who'd never hurt you or betray your trust. That shit works on a guy's head. He'll be so busy wanting to please you and get the sex, and be a hero in your eyes, that he won't have time to think of anything else. -
I think if it’s a major concern then maybe you should consider letting him know and discuss it. If someone really wants to be in a long committed relationship working towards a future, then as cliche and cheesy as it sounds it should be for better or worse rich or poor.
If it’s not a thought consuming relationship disrupting concern I think it’s always natural to anxious about losing your partner…that’s good it means you care
Love is work everyday it’s something both need to work together to remember no matter what the situation is you’re choosing to be with one another. - 1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
You don't have to be "afraid" but you do have to come to terms with that fact that we cannot control other people's intentions and actions so it is definitely something that CAN happen and we can only control what behaviors we accept and how we react to things.
This is why it is important to always have your own things going on in life that are independent from your relationship.
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No likely, divorce rates may be high but they are overwhelmingly filed by women. Men are far more loyal than our cultural leaders want you to beleive.
They want you to leave him so the pervs have one more vulnerable woman to take advantage of. That was the effect and likely the point of the so called "sexual revolution" they orchestrated 60 years ago. 472 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I wish I could say no that´s going to happen. But in modern day culture where everyone is encouraged to prioritise personal success and preferences I would say it can happen but it doesn´t need to happen.
Like I could imagine that it doesn´t happen as often as it´s supposed to happen in social bubbles. The problem there is no way to guarantee either way. Maybe it helps to date for a longer time before you get exclusive so you have more time to get to know each other.
616 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Not someone that looks better than you do. In fact, you'd be surprised how many handsome guys choose someone they can have children and a family. Not she may be more average compared to your Barbie Doll face and body.
It's kind of shocking to people they know, but it is real.- 845 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Do you HAVE to? No. SHOULD you? Well, maybe a little- enough to motivate you to ensure he wants to stay with you.
How do you do that? Sex is probably the first thing that springs to mind, and it's not a bad place to start (he is your husband, after all), but it's a bad place to stop. Think through your experiences, and experiment with some more things, to suss out what makes him feel loved and appreciated, and do you best to give him that.
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Who knows. It has been known to happen numerous times. If you keep him happy he is more likely to keep you. Hopefully, you knew him pretty well before you became involved with him. If it was sex that brought you together, it will probably be sex that ends it.
727 opinions shared on Relationships topic. No. If you are good quality when you met (attractive, under 30, no kids from your past, and no promiscuous past, no contact with any ex, and don't purposely do things to damage your looks) then he shouldn't leave once he is successful as long as you two were morally compatible.
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I'd say that it's not a possibility you should get particularly hung up on. Obviously life is full of twists and turns, and at the end of the day; no one can really predict how someone's marriage will evolve over the years, but getting replaced with a younger model is something that could happen regardless of who you marry.
it really depends on his morals and character.
A truly good guy will never do that to his love.
i just ditched a very appealing, fun, charismatic guy after the first date. he asked me to see him again and i refused despite the great time that I had. because i could tell very early that he was inconsiderate and also sort of an asshole.
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That's a normal concern to have.
If he's loyal, then he'll stay and appreciate the woman who helped him build his success.
His fear may be: "Do I have to be afraid that she'll leave me for someone more successful if I can't succeed or do succeed but fall on hard times?" -
Multi-millionaire Lord Sir Alan Sugar is still with the woman he married 70 years ago. I wonder why? Maybe this link can offer some clues:
https://www.digitiser2000.com/main-page/10-things-that-look-exactly-like-lord-alan-sugar
2.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Not if you treat him good and you support him and making it clear to him you are by his side no matter what , if you do that for him and he leaves you for someone else then he doesn’t deserve you period
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Depends? If he had enough girls in his life. And if you are good to him? Or if you annoy him and etc? But a successful build man becomes like a hot 18-year-old with high status.
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- 921 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
You’ll never know to be completely honest. All you can do is hope his love for you is similar to your love for him. If you’re already doubting yourself now, it’s only gonna get worse later.
- 527 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
I think you should watch out.. I heard of story like that. A guy dumped his girl friend after the girl supported him to go to med school. she worked and spend all the money for him and he dumped her and married German girl. she was Korean girl and he was German guy.
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