Things I thought were going great. I visited him for a month because I have known his schedule restricted him to visit me as planned. Somehow when I was back in town, that day he didn't seem to want to kiss me long. The next day I began to sense something bothered him and for the whole 2-3 weeks, he didn't seem to initiate text/calls. I asked if we are ok, so he said yes. The next couple of days he initiated, but then again not much want to talk. We decided to talk and it's turn out the concerns he had back in April. He's worried if it would work out long-term between us as we're so opposites in his opinions and other things. I stated my views again and leave him alone for 3 days. I feel anxious so I sent him "...:) ?" to see how he feels and wait for him. I know he's processing like last time. I would sense that insecurity inside him, afraid of giving himself a chance with me (for now it's a long distance) I want to move closer to him, to wherever he wants to be, but he has to be open, accept, and want to work too.
What do you usually say when your boyfriend/husband/or significant other is in the man cave?
