Polls: Relationships

So I've been having issues with my mans mother. She has been trying to but into our relationship telling me he told her to ask me for money, or that he's talking to other people when I know that he isn't. Him and I have a solid foundation and that bugs the shit out of her and she keeps trying to push me away. I'm conflicted on how to handle this situation. A part of me wants to go off on her and give her a piece of my mind, the other part of me wants to be the bigger person and let it go. What would you do?

Say you got your dream girl/boy: would you be okay with the fact that he/she doesn’t love you as much as you do?

When we just started dating my boyfriend was very loving, unlike any other guy I have dated before. He always made time to text me during the day even though we’re both busy working, called me straight after work and we could chat for hours, sent me flowers, always compliment me and tell me daily that he loves me, once he even flew to another country to see me and take out for dinner also he insisted and paid for the tickets just for me to go and see him and it was like this for a year but now as we are dating for nearly 2 years I just feel how everything has changed. He texts me just good morning and it’s every day the same like he does it because he has to not because he wants to. No more texts unless i text first and he gives a dry answer or he needs something, in the evening he is usually busy or in the best case calls me for 15-30 min and then says that he still has things to do and has to go. Even when we talk for longer I can say that he’s not really listening and just starts doing something around with me on the phone. He stopped saying that he loves me unless I say so he can answer with I love you too. When I ask him if everything is ok and if he wants to be with me because I feel that he got a bit cold he always says yes, that I am overthinking and should stop asking silly questions. Is it time to get worried or am I actually just overthinking and it is normal that after some time things change this way?

An if you simply do not have to the time or capability to meet up in person, is it better to text, write an old style letter, send a video, or just forget it.

So what I’m getting at is, do you think anything other than ‘talking in person’ _so bad_ that it’s better to say nothing an all?

if you do not think it’s best to do nothing at all if you can’t meet up, what means of communication other than in person, would you choose

And how long have you guys been together?

So I just found out that I’m pregnant. My ex and I broke up in January but continued seeing each other for our needs. I have infertility so I didn’t think i would ever get pregnant. When him and i were together for 3 years we tried to have a baby but wasn’t successful even with the help of a dr. I slept with him and only him the last few months. I know he’s the dad. I left him due to him putting his hands on me. I had a black eye and a broken finger. He went to jail for 90 days. We had sex in July 22,23,30 but in August he ghosted me due to me not wanting to be more than friends again. I told him i wanted to be friends and work on ourselves. He couldn’t handle that so he ghosted me. I don’t know if i should tell him or not. He has another baby that’s 3 or 4 years old. His first bm left him and moved to a different state so he hasn’t seen his son since he was a newborn. That’s breaks my heart because i want him to experience everything that he missed but then again why do i care when he put me through hell the whole 4 years we were together. My friends and family agree that i shouldn’t tell him. I feel like once i post the announcement that our friends will tell him and he’ll put two and two together.

True or false