Polls: Relationships

Question:

When females ask for [“reciprocation”] from males, are they really asking for a “female-minded, lover?” 🤖 👧

^^(meaning they want a direct copy of themselves when it comes to loving, or something like a mirror, and that would make things unfair). 🪞

In reality, Males do not ask that females reciprocate their affections, by working hard for them or say, lifting them into the house when they have a stubbed/ broken toe/ ankle.

Is it true, women are right to want love, but they go too far expecting men to love, as they do? And if not, they would say “the men didn’t love them?”

• Maybe the real things in question here, is that men and women have [physical and EXPRESSIVE limits.] 🤲💪

• Maybe men cannot fully express their love for a woman, or maybe not express it to the same extent the women would for their men? 💅

Just as women cannot fully and physically tend to their men as men can tend to their women.💪

-Maybe that’s the point?

But there would be (the few) some men and women, who would abuse these realities and take certain males/females for granted:

• I. e. a male in a relationship who didn’t really love her, possibly pushing her in front of him as a robber robbed the store, 🥷 and

• a female who said how much she loved him (maybe even sang him to sleep), 🗣 but did the same for other men she was seeing.

This type of male and female would use their [strength and expression] to take advantage of their lover in the relationship. Instead of using it properly because they never truly loved that person in the relationship, to begin with. 🤷‍♀️

-Does this train of logic seem reasonable along with the top 🔝 question that is in bold font?

Is it just “one of those things” you know, when you’re in a relationship with the love of your life? 👀👐

(All images sourced from Google)

Why and how did it go/end up if your willing?

Who has it so hard in the dating and relationship world:

- Sarah is just average (isn't that pretty, not even with make-up and she knows that) in looks and there is nothing she can do about it. She gets hit on by either average, broke, poor, or unattractive guys below her in looks or status. She's going to have to settle or continue being single.

- Michael is average or mediocre in looks and is poor. He will never be wealthy, has no exceptional skill compensating it and has no luck at all. He isn't getting hit on by anyone. His only single relationship lasted a couple months several years ago and he's been single since.

I found out recently that my boyfriend and his ex were still sending each other pictures of NSFW fan art for the first month of our relationship then stopped because they realised it was inappropriate.

For context they were in a long distance relationship and used to send each other NSFW fan art all the time. They broke up when we started dating and she ghosted him for 2 weeks, then when they started talking and hanging out online again they started sending the pictures again.

It's been over a year since this happened and they stopped but they still hang out online together often. I only found out that they used to date recently and then I found out about the pictures and i feel hurt and a bit betrayed.

I want to know if what they did is considered cheating or if it was just really inappropriate.

I'm not sure what to do and having some clarity on this might help me figure it out.

After talking to my boyfriend about it I've forgiven him and he has agreed to stop spending time alone with her and only to talk to her when she's hanging out with our mutual friends but I feel like I should confront her because she kept this from me and befriended me while sending these pictures to my boyfriend and not telling me about their relationship.

If you guys dont consider it cheating then I'll let it go and try to move on but if you do consider it cheating then I feel like I have a right to bring it up despite it being in the past and at the very least demand an apology from her and at worse cut ties with her completely. This whole situation really pains me because I did like her as a friend.