Polls: Relationships

Over the years I’ve seen plenty of guys (myself included) gripe about women (especially western women). To a certain extent lots of our grievances are justified considering what feminism has done to western culture.

I have and always agreed with the premise of giving opportunities to women in traditionally male dominated spheres. But as feminism evolved (or should I say devolved) it now more often enables women to be their worst vs. be their best. Usually to the expense of men too but ultimately to the unhappiness and misery of women themselves

With all the said I fully believe there is a deeply engrained evolutionary reason why women tend to be much more selfish in dating.

There was a long time in history women had to use their sexuality to their advantage for both self-preservation and protection of their children. They had fewer opportunities then men and also aren’t as physically strong hence they had to make to with what they had to survive (e. g. manipulation vía sexual attraction). This also a reason why they cared much more about a man’s wealth and prominence. It would ensure her well being and increased survival.

Nowadays in western culture most if not all that bs female manipulation is no longer necessary. Women are not only given ample opportunity to make money but encouraged and supportive via college admissions and scholarship processes. Corporations often want to hire women over men to look “diverse”. The “wage gap” is a proven myth.

Despite the equal opportunities there a DNA instincts that still influence behavior to be more picky with men and to use their sexuality for their own one way benefits.

But we got to deal with this the same way you deal with a sociopath (not saying all women are sociopaths). A sociopath at default is incapable of feeling remorse, guilt, etc. Yelling at them won’t change anything. Instead you have to interact with them carefully. Same with how to deal with women. Love them but be very careful to trust them.

A while ago, i found this quote online. And apperantly there are some people who live in a relationship, which prevents them from enjoying things while their s. o. is around and they have to wait to enjoy certain hobbies.

This was the initial twitter quote that started it off

You can’t call yourself an alpha male and have an Asian wife

— *⋆ 🎀 евелина 🎀 ⋆* (@soviethoneytrap) December 17, 2022

For those who can't see. The user said this "You can’t call yourself an alpha male and have an Asian wife". And this is coming from a white female.

Some of the highlighted replies

"All Asian women are mid and generally the white men who go after them are mediocre themselves."

"Delusional. Asians are bigger sl*ts and goldoggers than white women they literally fuck everything that's white and has money."

"AFAIK people can date whoever they want. Don’t act like your women don’t throw themselves at White men like it’s the end of the world though. Being together with an Asian as a White male is incredibly easy"

"White guys bragging about how they’re super mediocre & no one even looks at their direction in their countries but in Asia the women incessantly approach them because they’re white etc.. it’s a documented phenomenon"

"Another point: the low-quality of some (many?) of our women, has driven white men to date Latinas and Asian girls, who will, most of the time, treat them better than the white girls who they’ve dated prior. Not saying it’s good, not saying it’s bad; it’s just how it is."

"True story! White men with Asian women = last resort because you weren’t man enough to find a woman on your own level! It is fine if you want to resort to that measure, I don’t mind, but you will always be a soy boy beta male!"

Same sentiment can be seen on white dominated websites such as bodybuilding. com/misc where many users have said in the past that other white guys usually look down upon white males who date Asians.

I am 28 and never had a girlfriend. I would love a teen girlfriend, as long as it is legal. I want me and a girl to be each other's first real relationship. I seek a woman without a romantic past. Can I make it happen?

You’d have to have patience and every now and then, they’d blow up your phone freaking out about you being busy. They will make those rookie mistakes but you can guide them and help them become better at the game of relationships.

Male Led Relationship: Just the usual traditional marriage where the man is in charge. The guy gets the final say while he is the one who makes the money and make the decisions. His wife is essentially his responsibility and she usually stays home and do the cooking, cleaning and raising of the children. He is basically the boss!

Female Led Relationship: This is essentially the reverse of the traditional male leader and women follow relationship. In the female led relationship the woman is in charge and have the most say at the house, she will most likely be the main breadwinner and her husband is her responsibility. Her husband might take up the traditional feminine job of being home maker but still she is the boss and have the final word.

Partnership Relationship: In this relationship there isn't really a main leader because both the man and woman equally have a say in the couple. This relationship requires more compromise but still both the guy and girl have the same amount of power so no one is the final decider.

So men and women in terms of finding a potential partner which sort of lady or man is in your mind?

Personally myself I prefer if me and my future girl compromise and share equal say and responsibility I don't favor this one gender lead and the other gender follow concept. I rather choose a partnership but what about you men and women which relationship look more appealing in your eyes?

Do you think you are good at communicating?

Many users post questions asking "why is it so difficult to find a partner who is loyal?" I think that most people are loyal and cheaters are a minority, but maybe I'm wrong. (I've never cheated but I don't think that makes me an exceptional person.)

So I'm asking a simple question: Have you ever cheated on a partner by engaging in some form of sexual behavior (like fondling, passionate kissing, or something more) with someone other than your partner? This question assumes that you either had an explicit agreement to be monogamous or you knew that your partner expected you to be monogamous. I'm not asking if they cheated on you; I'm asking if you cheated.