Polls: Relationships

I don’t like it. I understand he doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. But most times I prefer honesty. I was having bad breakouts and my boyfriend kept downplaying it telling me I looked beautiful in his eyes no matter what 🥺. But his friend was blunt🤣🤣🤣 and told me I needed to see a doctor. Which I knew and I did and now my face feels great. My confidence higher. And we were talking and I told him that if I look big he can just be blunt about it. Well without being rude just be honest. And I know he knewwww about how bad my acne was he just didn’t want to make me feel worse which I understand. But sometimes honesty especially from the right people not said to spite you helps serve as your motivation to do better and improve 🥰

Marry someone unfaithful

I have a huge problem with him and is that he has no dreams, no goals in life besides things related to his hobbies, and he has no interest in self-improvement.

He has a decent paying job but he hates it. There’s no goals of where he wants to be in 5-years. He just wants to keep this job because he can easily slack off. There is also no interest in working hard or hustling for money. He doesn’t even want to make more money. Not interested in becoming a manager or advance in his career. He just wants more free time for his hobby.

He doesn’t think not having any goals is a problem. I think he lacks motivation in life and mainly he is just lazy. One thing I really dislike was how he went to confide in a friend of this issue. His friend told him that this is absolutely normal to not wanting more or have goals in life. That was all it took for him to confirmed he shouldn’t have motivations. Your friend would not tell you that you are not normal. I see that his friend is actually very motivated to better himself! In my opinion, it is not healthy to not have any motivation in life. It really frustrates me because he just wanted to hear what he wanted to hear and that’s that. In fact, he came back to me explaining that it’s a cultural difference problem. And that it is only my family culture where we hustle and always looking to improve ourselves and expanding our income.

Guys, how will you react if your girl tells you that she doesn't want to work and instead wants to be a housewife, stay at home and spend time with your kids? And she wants to cook for you and take care of the house instead.

Most likely we have different perspective in dealing with relationship. Some prefer older than them, some doesn't. Being old or young attitude may vary differences from the age timeline.

So what would you choose? A Man/Woman Older or A Man/Woman younger than you age?

I'm currently have SO in which our age difference is 10 years to be exact. I previously have Old Guy in relationship that have 3-5 years gap from me and this man is the way up older than them. And its greek to me that I love him more than the others.