Questions: Relationships

A bitter divorce where it involves child custody, divided assets, etc can be devastating. The divorce can also be as a result of infidelity. So much was invested on a marriage, only for all those years gone.

Then there is the other situation of a happily married couple but suddenly your spouse died in an accident. Or the case I've heard of a man's wife and long-term playmate from childhood died after giving birth to twin girls.

Which is worse? Your marriage destroyed with a bitter divorce or through spousal's sudden death while happy.

I used to be a planner but ever since my breakup back in August of last year, I've become a go with the flow type of person. I find it's more freeing and makes you end up doing things that you thought you would never do.

I'm more open to trying new things now which makes life more exciting.

But what are you more of?

Accidentally stepping on your dog's tail while he's lying on the floor, or accidentally stepping on your boyfriend's/husband's balls while he's lying in bed in the tiger knee position and you're stepping over him to the other side?