What is the most important thing you look for when thinking of a long term relationship/getting married with someone?

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What makes a relationship really last?  I think shared values and great communication is more important than chemistry with someone.  How did you know your spouse was the perfect one for you?

AvaRay · Accepted Answer

For me, the most important thing is a man who has fear of God, good character, shares the same values in life, n also has the ability to communicate openly n honestly..

Chemistry is great, but without alignment in core beliefs n mutual respect, it’s hard for a relationship to truly last..🥀

A lasting relationship, in my opinion, is built on trust, understanding, n the willingness to grow together, not just on attraction or fleeting feelings..☺️

You know someone is the 'right one' when you feel comfortable being your authentic self around them, when challenges strengthen rather than weaken your bond, n when there’s a sense of true partnership in navigating life together.. 🦋🍂

Katebfun · Accepted Answer

Compatability. Trust. Friendship. Communication. Values. Fighting fair. Compromise.

Genuinely enjoying being around them. Someone who you can be your complete self around, the good, bad and ugly.

Shared goals and a vision of the ideal furture is also important.

Equally yoked person who naturally inspires you to be a better person.

FYI. I believe 85% od marriages abs relationships are not true love. Its an excahnge on a shallow level. she's hot, he's rich kind of way. This also manifests in many ways.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

How much we have in common and how much we see eye to eye on things together and how much chemistry and connection we have for each other , If we both have very similar things, then that’s a girl I would consider marrying , especially if she has good moral values as well and isn’t selfish person, I can’t stand selfish girls’ period you either want a committed relationship or you don’t , selfish girls’ don’t know how to be in a relationship because all they care about is themselves and what they feel is best for themselves , they don’t give the same way they expect to receive period

jahaims · Accepted Answer

You need all of it. Same values, good communication and chemistry.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, the secrets to a happily ever after! Shared values and stellar communication are indeed the Beyoncé and Jay-Z of successful relationships: the ultimate power couple. Personally, I knew my spouse was the one when our late-night conversations made time fly, and we shared similar dreams and quirky humor. Chemistry might light the fire, but those shared values and communication skills keep it burning brightly! Keep lovebombing with those meaningful talks and enjoy the magic. 🥰✨

Nikki1989 · Answer

Personality, kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty and integrity, good communication skills, and shared interests and values. Anything else is just a bonus. Yes, I have posted this a million times, but this has been asked a million times.

dwreborn · Answer

You need to make sure you can communicate back and forth with any issues if not and if he or she avoids these feelings or thoughts its gonna break down you need to communicate

Phoenix98 · Answer

She obviously needs to be a good person with good head on your shoulders and a good heart and it's important that we're on the same page in general overall but also what we want out of life as far as you know marriage, kids, etc go. Then you need to have chemistry and mutual attraction, stuff like that.

Anonymous · Answer

Values, chemistry, and communication are all very important. It how they combine which creates a successful relationship. You probably won't ever find someone who will be a 100% match to what you want, but they should align or be malleable in certain areas.

beenherebefore · Answer

If we share similar values and have the same plans for the future.

RavVid · Answer

I put a lot of value on genuine niceness. It is an umbrella for desirable traits and is reasonably observable in the short term.

exitseven · Answer

Having the same opinion on child rearing, recreation, money and family is very important. Sex is also important.

Miristheiss · Answer

A virtuous woman.  He character and having aligned values and life goals.

DJB72 · Answer

They need to share Christianity with me and put God ahead of me in the relationship.

Zhangyuxin · Answer

当考虑与某人建立长期关系或结婚时，需要综合考虑多个因素，包括价值观、个性、沟通、尊重、支持和吸引力。重要的是，要找到一个能够与你共同成长、共同面对生活挑战的人。

loveyouoak · Answer

He is enough to be loyal, compassionate, emotional and understanding.

Liyue · Answer

This is often the core issue. If two people differ greatly on major issues (life goals, family values, money values, moral bottom line, etc.), they are likely to conflict in the long run.

Jessica850808 · Answer

在长期的恋爱关系中，对生活方式、理财观念、子女教育、职业规划等方面有一致的看法至关重要。

qwerty2469 · Answer

#1 amount of dicks inside them #2 politics #3 are they white or Japanese

Anonymous · Answer

As long as she is my type of girl, I'll adapt to her personality.

Slim57 · Answer

Loyalty and commitment, good communication, compromise

dustybiker2 · Answer

Thoughtfulness

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Character, intelligence, stability.

Anonymous · Answer

A good question I can't remember Like you, shared values, caring person.

Anonymous · Answer

A nice butt. Flat butts do not do it for me.

Eleni6_ · Answer

Communication and trust.

Staximus · Answer

A woman that is not shady

Athena7_ · Answer

Communication trust and ability to live together.

Colin234234 · Answer

Trust

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