Ladies, does it offend you if your s/o has fear of touch or fear touching?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I dont think I was biologically programmed to be in a relationship, my ASD has and will most likely always be a bitch to me.

anyways I can't believe how my fear of touching or being touched was until I was in a relationship a while back. my ex would of always complain that I never touch her or at least try to make the effort. I had to push myself so hard and endure feeling weird just to stop her from complaining.

I also felt some anxiery when she tried touching me or try to initiate intimacy with me as well.

yes

no

dont care

[Finchie40]

Well the truth is , the fact that you are that way , the right thing you should of done before getting into a relationship with her or anyone , is for
You to be honest and upfront about how touching makes you feel. Your partner isn’t a mind reader , so by you not disclosing that to her unfortunately makes you a selfish person for continuing to date her and not disclosing that information to her. So she had every right to feel concerned as to why you didn’t want to be touched by her , if a girl did that to me , I would have question marks as well and think WTF is her problem , and I would more than likely dump her ass over it as well. If you want to have a loving relationship with someone you have to be honest and upfront about who you are as a person , not the other way around. Nobody wants to be blind sided , just like you did to your girlfriend, You just assumed she would accept the fact that you didn’t want to be touched and that’s where you are wrong and selfish. I’m sorry to point this out to you man but it’s the respectful thing to do before getting into a relationship with anyone. When I meet a girl that I am interested in and I sense she is interested in me , I will lay myself out on the table for her by telling her things that I am into and not into , to give her a choice on whether she wants to continue seeing me or not. Honesty goes a long way in a relationship, if you can’t be honest to someone you want to be in a relationship with , don’t be surprised when they decide they no longer want to be with you. My love language is touch and words of affirmation, I will tell a girl my love language to give her a choice on whether she wants this or not. It’s the respectful thing to do

[D_Bone_Steak]

Bitches understand if they get slapped for touching me wrong. They wipe the blood from their lips and nose and get horny for me.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

lmao. man you got a lot of patience. women literally cling on to men like you, they stalk them like flies to a pile of shit

[D_Bone_Steak]

I have to beat them off with a stick

[just_a_potato]

How you feel is valid and you should never have to force yourself to do something that makes you physically uncomfortable for someone else's comfort. That being said, I personally need physical touch, so I would never find myself in a relationship with someone who can't give me that. So I'd suggest you be upfront about that to prospective partners in the future.

[NordicInScandinavia]

Offended, nah. However, I'm a touchy person so I'd simply not find myself a man who doesn't like touch.

Pretty simple tbh. People be forcing themselves into relationships they ain't compatible in and then are surprised it doesn't work.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@nordicinscandinavia ditto, I also like hugs, etc : obviously not unexpectedly or creepily from strangers lol "some big dude comes up and hugs me" - dude what the lol 😂😆 and that's being said lightly

[Filthy_Immigrant]

so how can you tell the compatibility right from the start?

[NordicInScandinavia]

@filthy_immigrant
By having conversations before you agree shacking up with them exclusively. Like yikes.

[NordicInScandinavia]

@filthy_immigrant

Thanks for create a little more understanding for people like you tho. 👍🥰

[AI Opinion]

Hey love! Fear of touch can be a real struggle in relationships. Intimacy doesn't always come naturally to everyone, so don't beat yourself up. Communication is your secret weapon here. Open up about your feelings, and maybe find alternative ways to express affection that work for you both. Understanding partners appreciate honesty and effort! Remember, you're not an alien trying to phone home. You're just human, navigating the world of cuddles and connection. Keep it calm and find what makes YOUR heart happy! 🤗❤️

[dwreborn]

May if its a fear or some type of medical issue that can't be fixed then i wouldn't be offended just would understand and move on but i couldn't be with a woman who didn't like to be touched or didn't like touching I love touching my wife even if its just lightly drawing my fingers across her back

[mysteriousNicholas]

I'd imagine you'd have to find a woman who shares your.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

that's basically all women in America

[Sevenpointfive]

i get kind of offended if a lady doesn't let me touch. it doesn't matter who she is.

[Colin234234]

I get it