Polls: Relationships

My friend just dumped her boyfriend. He's been spending it all on expensive places and things. She discussed her concern about it with him several months ago, the bills and her worries about how they would provide for a child in the future if he continues spending money like crazy. He really thought she was complaining too much and that she should be happy he's showering her with great gifts.

He kept inquiring debt and she dumped him. Is it right to dump a boyfriend for that reason? If he's careless about his money, spends it on expensive things and acquiring overdue bills?

Once you know them, it is like they have an unnatural hold on you.

They invade your thoughts, even feels like your soul, and yet at the same time they offer peace, love, comfort and patience.

Even looking at them, their eyes or face can mesmerize you into a trance like state, before you know them.

They radiate something out of them, that is unexplainable.

They seem extremely rare, but I think I have met at least one in my life, possibly two or three. No doubt due to everything I've been through.

Some others have even called me one, but they leave a lasting impression without even trying.

Your life is forever changed for better or worse, simply by knowing them and nothing more.


Have you ever met someone who has had these kind of effects on you?

Who was it?

As for me, my first true love who helped me through so many things.

I would not be here without him. He was so magical, and I miss him so much 😪 even all these years later.

He passed on from this life 😇 but not before touching my soul ✨ and forever changing me.

I have no doubt he would be disappointed in me for the things I've done since, but at the same time he would hug me and forgive without hesitation while reaching into my soul to remove the pain and give me comfort.

Te extraño mi amor

My friend/co-worker (25 M) is reconsidering his relationship. He found out his girlfriend (23 F) used to play a game with animals. They included cats, small dogs, squirrels, hamsters, etc. She called it ''Captive n Captor''.

From what he told me, it was either burying them for a bit, submerge them under water for a few seconds, making them fall in a hole and trap them for several minutes or any of those trapping games. She eventually released them. She never killed an animal, just trapped them for a bit. She didn't like being with the same captive for too long. She was between ages 8-11 years old.

Would that still be animal cruelty? Would you break up if you found that out? He's having a hard time with the out of boredom and control part.

Obviously I'm bringing other stuff but I can't decide between these.
Everything will be homemade.

In general and in my opinion, I think shared values are very important in relationships and are beneficial for keeping the relationship strong and connected. In my personal relationships, shared values are extremely important to me because I feel more connected to them because we have something in common and can work as a team vs. against each other for future goals and handling conflicts. That is why I think shared values are important for my relationship and in relationships in general.

However, some people are able to be with someone of differing values in life and relationships. I definitely give those people props, because differing in values, especially in relationships, makes things difficult for me. I am stubborn when it comes to my values, and I will stand by them.

Agree Or Disagee?

Author's Opinion: 📘

My boyfriend hasn't broken up but our relationship hasn't been the same ever since he found out weeks ago that I bullied other girls and 2 guys in my school years (grades 8th to 10th).

He's said he's disappointed that I never shared that information and told him in his face; that it didn't came from me. Instead he found out about it. Others from my school told him and some other evidence he won't tell me about. Then he asked me ''I'm assuming you've apologized right'', to which my answer was a ''No, I didn't. I wanted to forget about it''.

Needless to say should this even be a reason to break up? This happened 6-8 years ago already.