Nice guys empty their entire pay check at bars. The bad boys don't pay a dime and leave with the girl.
This isn't right or wrong, it's just a fact.
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I have seen PLENTY of nice guys who are married and have kids. I think this line is just a common excuse used by jaded men to hate on women.
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This is complex. But why is that almost every single woman I’ve met who is semi attractive or better has always fallen in love with an asshole, got burned by him and instead of owning up to their mistake they look for shoulders to cry on? Why is that mothers, female teachers, etc. try to brainwash young boys into something women don’t want?
Feminism has been a epidemic culprit to creating nice guys for the last few decades. The scourge movement has brainwashed hordes of young boys/men with toxic guilt and shame for just being men.
Any way I have been called a “nice guy” for the better part of my life and whenever a woman (who I like) says it I just want to vomit. I NEVER self identify as a “nice guy”. However I was raised by an abusive and very controlling mother who always got her way with my dad. She used to lecture me about being a “good role model” for my younger siblings. She was a horrible role model herself. Anyway.
There is only one attractive woman I’ve met once in my entire life who truly had deep feelings for me and called me “a nice guy”. I used to get pissed off every time she said that. But only 1 out of 10 (dateable) women I’ve met in my life actually respect that.I disagree.
There is such thing as too nice, and that’s just weird, creepy, and too much.
But just generally nice. No, they don’t finish last. Why would they?
What person doesn’t want to be treated well. Loved. Cared for. Feel amazing. Special. Happy. Excited. Etc.
These are all the traits I see that a nice guy can bring to a relationship, friendship. So why on earth would a nice guy finish last?
The day and age of this statement is old and buried. It’s gone with the times.
Maybe childish teenagers want that silly bad boy image in their teenage years, but that very soon wears off as they grow up and mature into a women and know what real traits a women needs and wants in a real genuine good man!
Don’t listen to silly old trash sayings, they don’t mean anything. They are not true. They don’t mean anything.
Be confident in who you are. What you bring to someone. And know your worth!The complete term nice guys finish last because if you invert it you'll find they actually finished first while waiting for the other candidates who dont think and apply themselves disproportionately think they'll finish first but in actuality they didn't finish because the majority of them whether we like it or not they're morons. Because in order to be you must have the proper answers to the questions involving who what etc. Their answers dont cut it cause if you dont work you dont achieve your goals. We just don't finish last we wait until everything that could be done is and then we clean up!!!
Not always. I don't think there is this universal standard or preference all women have for men. Women are very diverse and you really never know who's gonna catch their interest. Some like nice guys, some like assholes. Some don't like either. Some even fall in love with serial killers, strange as that is. Indeed, sometimes their choices are quite puzzling. But that's because women are quite puzzling. That's not a bad thing though. It just means they're complicated creatures. Physicists will unlock time travel before anyone comes to understand women.
I think we need to replace “nice” with something different. Not sure what. But it’s commonly misunderstood what is meant by this. I think people in general who are less assertive (nice) finish last because they take bullshit, have less boundaries, and less confidence. “Mean” people on the other hand, again, replace “mean” with something different too. If mean applies to assertive people, let’s go from there. People with boundaries, a goal in mind, confidence just ask for what they want more and go after it with less reservations.
Everyone likes nice people. It’s not that their niceness is holding them back, it’s their strategy and approach to what they want.im stuck between A and C.
i think nice guys dont finish last in the office unless they are in a high pressured dog eat dog atmosphere.
However, i do think nice guys finish last with girls. For some reason, most girls will take a "bad boy alpha male" over a beta male because it makes them feel safer.
However, its actually the women finishing last there when they are impregnated with a cheating and physically violent alpha.
Beta males are submissive and respective to their women , but are perfectly able to to become an alpha in a situation where it is required. I find Beta males to be more well balanced. I am a beta male. i dont and can't fight with other men in most situations, but i am not afraid to turn into rambo if someone hurts my family.
so where as Alpha males do finish first, they dont always get what they need in life, even if they get what they want. i find Alphas to be deeply insecure and narcissistic control freaks.Being just nice and basing your whole persona around being "a nice guy" is a huge red flag. Being nice to people is the literal bare minimum you need to be to be a decent human being. Also most guys who say this tend to actually be incredibly manipulative, I mean just saying "damn nice guys do finish last" to a woman who rejected you is just a pathetic attempt at trying to make her feel bad about not being interested in you. So yeah these "nice guys" really do finish last because they're actually boring, shitty people 🤷🏻♀️
I have seen a lot of women chase after or be more attracted to guys who treat them like they don't matter, who treat them like an option and not a priority. I suppose it's the old saying "you always want what you can't have". A lot of girls and younger women fall for that "edgy" "mysterious" "bad boy" or "unavailable" bullshit. Once they get older and get burned a couple times, most women grow up and realize that it's better to have a guy who is dependable, will stick around, and actually give a fuck about you.
No.
The current "trend of thought" infers that a "nice guy/gal" might be: only a people-pleaser, someone who is over-the-top flexible to accommodate others, is weak, avoids tough decisions and/or makes bad decisions. In reality, finishing first, being successful, and "winning" all require good talent and skills, which lead to good behavior and beneficial actions being taken. Let's break down the myths:
- "Goodness" does not slow people down.
- Business is NOT about YOU winning the race. It's about teamwork and getting everyone across the "finish line".
- Niceness is an investment. It will payoff as no one makes it alone : at some point, you will need support.Guys really are so stupid they believe girls want bad guys. Girls want guys and it just so happens 97% of people are highly flawed. A decent looking REAL nice guy that is going somewhere will finish just as good.
We really have grown people still believing in this but refuse to take a diving look into what is actually happening. Has nothing to do with being a jerk vs being nice but being a jerk will always get you less than you could get if you treat others well. There is another element that seems to go right over guys heads.Depends on the terminology of "nice guy". If it is the stereotype, then yes, because they are extremely insecure people who treat others like crap for not letting the situation go their way. If you are talking about genuinely nice guys, then... kinda, depending on location and how they handle their wordplay. Many women tend to be weary of guys who are genuinely kind & thoughtful because of the typical "nice guy", then tend to be more trusting of aggressive a-holes that treat them like crap after getting what they want. Point is society is groomed because of a-holes that treat women like garbage and use tactics to manipulate... but that's what happens when love is treated like a game, instead of an interaction between 2 interested people
I don't care no more. I can imagine myself being single with 38. This has got nothing to do with it to be honest. It's a major problem in the society.
You can't do it for your personality/who you are.
You know? Life has more to offer than this relationship, partner, girlfriend, oh-no-you-are-a-good-person-thats-terrible bullsht.
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iDontCareDepends what you mean by nice.
If we're talking nice as a pushover pussy type of dude that let's you walk all over him, than of course lol
But if we're talking about a guy who's nice as in just nice, than umm... no.. that's kinda a prerequisite for even being interested in a guy in the first place..“Nice guy” is quite broad of a description. It doesn’t actually say anything about the expectations or the perceptions of “Nice”. An example a “psychopath“ can be “nice”, a “narcissist” can be “nice”, not to mention all the other personality disorders out there. Which we all have degrees of.. we all have moments of “Nice”. A Better and more accurate description might be “good guys finish last”. Because they are so focussed on doing the right things they miss the things staring them in the face.
Yes, ma'am, nice guys generally have to work much harder to get a woman's attention, and more often than not, we end up paying for her dates with the alpha males who are enjoying sex with her, but that's not necessarily a bad thing, in my opinion;)
They have the terminology wrong.
Its not about being NICE or EVIL.
Someone who behaves nice towards you for being a hot girl can totally be a complete Psycho in disguise. A Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing!
Non-Hot guys finish last.
Simps finish last.
Unattractive Men finish last.
Nerds finish last.
Beta-Males finish last.
Fearful men finish last.
Wimps finish last.
Use any other term, but the nice or bad terminology is completely BS. And confuses people.I don't 100 % understand the nice guy stereotype. I think being a caring and understanding partner is wonderful, but the nice guy stereotype seems to indicate their niceness being fake and when they don't get their way they become rude and verbally abusive. If that is the definition of nice guy then I'd say no one will want that.
What's your definition of the nice guy?
I met a lot of self-confessed nice guys who were creeps or insecure crybabies who would blame women for everything in their life.
Real nice guys, with matching personality have been snatched up already.
Oh, and being nice and being interesting and exciting are not exclusive personality traits. => women just want someone exciting ( a bad boy if you will) who treat them nicely => not a snoozefest.Is more about leadership qualities, social intelect, ability to read people, flirting skills and many other qualities that women look for in a man.
Weather you are the super villain or super hero, girls dream of the ones that are superior to mainstream, avarage joes. Same goes for guys, they dream of, well not all, but many dream of the girls with atractive bodies and cute faces more than they dream of their partner being just kind.If I were to compare myself to Einstein, I'd look like a fool. If Einstein tried to race the kind of cars I have, he quite possibly would have died much sooner than he did.
One does not finish last for being a nice guy. It's the asshole that shoves their way to the front of the line that is the loser.
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