Have you ever been the toxic one in a relationship?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes I have.

No I haven't.

Never been in a relationship.

[lilyanony1]

I'm not entirely sure. I have been watching the Russian doll and the guy was dating a woman who ended up cheating...
She claims him to be sensitive (like me)
And she said he deals with mental issues (I suffer from anxiety)
Now when she broke up with him after 9 years he committed suicide.
I often wondered if the reason my ex played games with me was because he didn't feel he was able to tell me out right.

But personally what he did going away and coming back only to tell me I was irritating, not slim enough, too fat or annoying, calling me a coconut, excluding me from his inner circle, not wanting to join mine... I can't say it was because I was toxic...
I think he played the games because he thought I was a push over.

Yes in the end I had to play him at his own game. Going along with his bull and cancelling plans last minute (like he did to me) agreeing to things and then not doing them (like he did to me) lying about information I didn't have (he actually had information through getting others to look out and report back).
So yes that you can say was toxic but I needed him to understand this was the end of the line and there is no going back!

[IsoUser]

To be perfectly honest a Mail Order Bride? Really, that relationship is bound to be Toxic from the get go.

[HighlyVolatile]

I think I at least had a part in my earliest relationships in escalating conflicts. If I revisited them I would have found a way not to get angry even if she was doing her best to push my buttons. I think I could even tame an Amber Heard now -- not that I would stay with her but I think I can tame her. I wouldn't be able to do it when I was in my early 20s. I would have shouted and become pissed off.

[HighlyVolatile]

I got new no-angry strategies now. Say Amber Heard was my girl and she shit my bed on purpose. I lift the sheets and wrap her in the sheets and put the shit on her. And without any anger. Just like, "You should the bed. Now you can wear the bed."

[HighlyVolatile]

* You [shit]

[HighlyVolatile]

But my actions aren't motivated by anger, or vengeance, just very calm and trying to teach her not to shit the bed.

[HighlyVolatile]

Johnny Depp is like how I was in my 20s and I do think he is toxic in his own way.

[Sonorous]

The term "toxic" can refer to anything that someone dislikes about another person. As a result, anyone could be twisted to be toxic.

[IsoUser]

To be perfectly honest yes I have during my first marriage, we were yong and just grew apart in Careers it just became physically and emotionally Toxic

[scooogy]

I tried to push her into finding a job, does that count?

[Jltakk]

In a friendship, yes plenty of times. I would say something stupid and I'd hurt someones feelings. My self-esteem has reached the lowest its ever been afterwards.

[007kingifrit]

well 50/50