Questions: Relationships

The risks:

• Everyone at your workplace might find out
• You might develop feelings for him
• He or you might lose your job
• He might catch feelings for you, and if you leave him he might sabotage you
• He will talk about your intimacy with other males at work, exposing you sexually
• You as a woman, will be called every degrading name in the book
• If relationship develops, he will cheat due to him being attractive
• Other females will feel jealousy or envy and try to sabotage you and steal him from you because again (he’s hot)

Pros:

• You will receive sexual satisfaction, and your sexual goals will be met.
• Your ego will be lifted momentarily because you smashed the hottest man in town.
• there's a tiny chance this individual could potentially become your future husband, soul-mate, and father to your children.
• You will be under the delusion of being in love during the time that you enjoy his presence and his attention
• It will be such an amazing experience for a while , and can completely obliterate any boredom in your life and/or depression.
• Smashing the Hot Guy at work. Could be a once in your lifetime experience. Never again to occur.

WHAT SO YOU CHOSE, YES OR NO.

I’ve never been attracted to someone like my ex. By this i mean inside and out! I miss making out with my white ex 😔. I miss his smell. I miss it when he carry me. I miss looking into his blue eyes 💔. I miss our conversations. I miss feeling peaceful and safe on his lap. I miss everything about him. I wish if i could take him back one day! i now only want a white man like my ex so I could forget about him. I think if i was so attracted to him then i will be also attracted to my future white boyfriend like him and then forget easily about him. Because i think the worst thing is if i marry a brown guy and then I remember my white ex, nothing i could change then 😥. Should i be picky and just date anotger white man? Or am i stupid to think in this way?