Questions: Relationships

I interviewed for a position almost a yr ago & never heard back from the recruiter even after following up. The recruiter reaches out to me again to schedule an interview & didn’t even bring up the fact that I interviewed for it before. It’d be an internal transfer, the interview was supposed to be for 30 min & lasted maybe around 20-25, the person that interviewed me gave the timeframe for when I’d hear back from the recruiter (gabby). And she ended it all with it “you’ll be hearing back from Gabby”. I think that’s just a recap but wanted opinion

I wouldn’t mind living in the same apartment complex or house neighborhood, and just spending the night at eachothers place on occasion. I understand that its technically causing us to spend more money than necessary, but I really like my space and have no interest in shacking up. If we’re at least engaged, then I’m okay living together. But even if living together, I’d have joy in knowing that we have the option of separate bedrooms for when we want to sleep alone or have that extra space between us. It doesn’t mean I love the person any less. It doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy seeing them on occasion. I just don’t need them in my face every morning/night. Hearing my ex suggest rekindling and me moving up north with him just makes me cringe. Even back then I told him I’d rather just live near one another rather than together. And hearing my current think that I’d HAVE to live with him if I got knocked up is sweet, but not necessary. I’ll probably have mood swings while pregnant and he's probably better off at a distance. #FeelFreeToList