We are close friends but what made me feel weird about it is that we are too sweet with each other. He always buys me drinks and I also reciprocate with food.
we both are trauma bonded as we both lost our loved ones. He first then i later. And he was there when i lost my family member.
What makes me amaze with our bond is whenever we talk we have these therapy sessions to help us with our losses.
We did mention that he seems to be my brother and i his sister but you know, i just want your guys perspective because whenever we message, he is really sweet. He says things like you know i got you. And also says im glad that you didn't have any panic attacks today when we met each other. We also hug most of the time when we meet and leave.
He has been messaging me sometimes of where he is going or what he's doing. The emotional connection is really strong. But i sometimes feel that what we are doing is sometimes a front because we both crave emotional connection but do not like to have relationships and so instead we are using this.
He even said who needs a lovelife if I am there who can fulfill the need instead. So my question is if this is normally how it goes coz all my other friends are not like this.
