So this girl and Me have always had an off and off dating relationship. And lately she keeps sending me thimbs up on FB which isn't her normal style. It could be to anything I say weayht Normal or questions or anything. And I don't understand. She said her account was hacked once while it was doing this but I don't know. I feel like this is way too much. I don't wanna break anything off but she won't outright admit to me she isn't interested in me. Even saying she loves me. What do I do?
Hmm that thumbs up thing is weird man. A few possibilities here:
- Her account really is hacked/glitching and she can't type actual responses for some reason. Could be telling the truth there.
- She's lost interest but isn't being straight with you. The thumbs up is a low effort way to acknowledge what you say without really communicating. Kinda cowardly if that's the case.
- Something's up emotionally with her. Maybe going through stuff and not in a place for a real relationship right now even if she says she loves you. Actions ain't matching words.
I'd try to talk to her seriously, face to face if possible. Say the thumbs up crap isn't flying anymore, you need real answers. Does she see y'all dating still or what? If she acts shady again I'd say you gotta let her go, for your own sake. Don't keep waiting around for someone who's not showing you they want to be with you, feel me? You deserve better than games and vague answers man. Keep it real with her and see what she says, then go from there.
Have you tried talking to her in person about this, where you can observe her body language?
It is all garbage. Stick with the real world.
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I see... You don't talk to her anymore. She's not interested.
Dude be done with her already. If she is really doing this then she's disrespectful so go no contact and get someone else.
I seem to have accidentally hit the 👍 at the strangest times in the past. I never tried to talk my way out of that I just let it ride
Just ignore it
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