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The spidey-sense that brought me closer and closer to someone and developed an unlikely friendship

The spidey-sense that brought me closer and closer to someone and developed an unlikely friendship

This January I was sitting in an exam theatre at my university and i was filling out my name on my exam script and suddenly I decided to stop and looked up ahead and caught gaze of a girl walking towards me. I thought to myself wow she's really attractive, who is this?! She didn't look at me as she was was late and trying to find a seat quickly. She sat down 3 seats ahead of me. I kept trying to think why I've never met her before but eventually my focus switched back to my exam.

The spidey-sense that brought me closer and closer to someone and developed an unlikely friendship

Later this year this girl attended the same honours project tutorial as me as me and somehow we both managed to sit by each other and even managed to talk to each other! I couldn't believe my luck!! She then decided to add everyone (seven students) to a whatsapp group and when it came to me she ignored me completely. I reached out my arm and hand to her as if to plead to take my number and when i gave up she suddenly gave me her phone, i didn't really think at the time why she did this as im a bit naive but she was playing with me. She then checked to see i added my number because she giggled at the funny title i added to my name and asked how i did that but i refused to tell her. Nothing came of this whatsapp group as no one actually messaged on it so it was useless!

The spidey-sense that brought me closer and closer to someone and developed an unlikely friendship

A friend of mine wanted me to install snapchat on my iphone and depressingly they were the only friend on the app and so i looked at the quick add list and added people i didn't know out of curiosity.
Coincidentally one of them had the same first name as the girl i knew at uni (it's unique).
She kept looking at my stories and was always the first to look so i suddenly thought it could be this girl! I messaged her and asked and it was indeed her and we got talking and developed a meaningful online friendship where we'd talk and share pictures about university life and home life.

The spidey-sense that brought me closer and closer to someone and developed an unlikely friendship

We all had to attend lectures in a rather large classroom and id always sit at the front. This girl however wouldn't attend because she lived far and always went to sleep too late the night before. One day she turned up unknown to me and strangely i turned right round to my left (which i dont normally do) and saw her sitting there, i immediately turned back round and realised i could sense where she is. In the lecture I kept thinking about all the events that brought us together and whether it's just coincidence or not!

My friendship with the girl remains online as we have left university now and unfortunately she has a boyfriend she's known since childhood. She tells me she has anxiety so she finds it difficult to just meet me and I've tried to get her to come see me as a friend. She doesn't have many friends either and is introverted. I have tried many ways to show my interest in her aswell but as she has a boyfriend i must look elsewhere now for a girlfriend but I've never had an experience like this one where things keep bringing me and her together but who knows what the future holds...

Have you ever experienced a spidey sense with someone you're attracted to? Has it ever developed into a relationship? Have things brought you two together with unimaginable luck? Please share and i hope you enjoyed my first take.

The spidey-sense that brought me closer and closer to someone and developed an unlikely friendship
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