12 Relationship tips I learned from studying the bible
Until you figure out what you were designed to do you cannot find stability with those who know what they were designed to do
You cannot build a relationship with somebody who does not give you the dignity and privacy and space to take care of and protect yourself
You cannot build a relationship until you learn to deal with different types of people differently and not bring baggage from one relationship into the next relationship
You cannot maintain a relationship until you have the strength and piety to accept and acknowledge the unpleasant dimensions of life
You cannot be in a relationship until you realize the parallelism of your life and theirs and the importance of fostering a sense of relatedness and mutual identification and tolerance for differences
You have to understand simplicity and time boundedness and set realistic and attainable schedules and methodologies of goal attainment and acquire a healthy and productive relationship with multi tasking.
You must learn that vanity is merely a surface orientation and not the full throttle of everything offered. Having a healthy relationship with vanity where you are mindful of looks but not consumed by it or obsesses by it is important.
You have to learn to prioritize and learn that sometimes the needs of the big picture trump the minor concerns or that long term goals contradict your immediate short term goals.
You have to learn to govern your life with a sense of grace and kindness and allow others their freedom of expression without micromanaging how you are viewed or challenged by the opinions of others.
You have to accept your needs and short comings and your duty to overcome them by taking on the burden of self improvement and delayed gratification
You have to seek discernment and critical appraisal by learning not to accept people and things at face value and you have to pursue the hidden truth beyond surface presentations to get at real character.
You have to accept your position and the limitations and privileges of your role along the responsibilities and duties of your particular matriculation in the societal matrix and faithfully confine yourself to those responsibilities.