My fiancé said he’d prefer if I wear Niqab after we’ve married. He said he wants to be the only one who can see me because I am too beautiful. Of course I will, without a doubt. But would you? why or why not?
Would You Wear Niqab If Your SO Asked?
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Firstly, when committing to niqab or hijab make sure you're doing it for yourself not your husband, parents or family members. The niqab is not mandatory like the hijab. Seek validation in yourself. Do you want to wear it? Why, do you want to wear it? These are questions to ask yourself. Do you feel like this will make life more difficult for you? If your soon to be husband wants you to wear it think about how this will affect you and his relationship. What if you wanna take it off and he doesn't agree? This will put a strain in the relationship. Think long and hard about this. His reason is 1/8th of what wearing niqab is about. I would recommend you do some research pray on it and then make you decision. I hope this was helpful. Good luck!
Their beliefs... he would want you sit at home all day and do the chores while he can freely be out. Quran gives him permission to beat u, he can have 4 wives while u can only have 1 husband etc. Generally u can't be an independent woman.
I will cover my hair, but your face is important for communication and Niqab obscures that and a lot of body language as well. It’s also impractical for eating and working in the heat. I like how loose it is though. You could probably get along without maternity clothes once you got pregnant.
No I wouldn't. I can't imagine living or asking someone in this day and age to live a good portion of their life under a sheet. I want to show off who I'm with as well as I'm not gonna live in constant fear of someone taking my wife away so I don't need her to hide herself. If she ended up leaving it would mean she wasn't really in love to begin with.
explaining it like that makes it seem pretty romantic, if you don't have a problem with wearing it I think it's fine, me personally if I were you would never agree to such a thing, nor would I marry a muslim.
I really can't support the religion tbh the head dress who cares tho
Sorry. I had to go there. Your religion doesn't mandate it, but it is tradition in some parts of the world. And how is it really any different than a traditional Catholic Carmelite nun's habit?
Here in the United States, that would not go over well. I would not ask my girl to wear garb like that, and if she wanted me to I'd decline. In America, there is really no cultural context for a marriage arrangement such as covering up a wife so that only her sacred husband's eyes can look at her. If anything, in America that sort of thing would be criticised... it is thought of as the equivalent of a man jealously locking his wife way in a safe, like a toy only he can play with.
LOL fuck no. If my boyfriend asked me to wear a niqab or said anything as possessive as 'he wants to be the only one who can see me because I am too beautiful', I'd kick him to the curb and make him an ex right away.
I personally prefer the hijab. When you wear it everyone see that you are a woman, but with the niqab is not the same, also the hijab is more practical.
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Not only no but fuck no. Why the hell are you with someone that would ask for that anyway. i will say it now, like have said it a million times. MUSLIMS DO NOT CARE ABOUT WOMEN'S RIGHTS... To Muslims women are property no more no less.
I already wear a niqab so this would not be an issue for me but yes. I would wear it. You should want to wear it. Not for anyone else but for yourself. It will bring you closer to Allah and you will find peace in your heart.
Yeah I mean, oppression isn’t good. In regards to my comment I feel like with women and particularly feminism that it was like: ok, you can vote and hold political office, and have equality in terms of civil rights and opportunity.
Well that’s great... but it didn’t stop there. Once the right to vote and hold office was granted, feminists used that as a vehicle to go well beyond equality to the point where they are allowed privileges men are not, and used to opportunity to influence laws and politicians not for equality but their benefit at the expense of men and children of either gender.
That tells me equality was never the aim, but rather domination. I have noticed something within most women that goes well beyond a desire to assert themselves but is akin to tyranny as it tends to be about control of others at any cost.
If there is ample objective evidence of this, then maybe it’s best to keep the Tiger in its cage lest it tear us to peieces.
@Bluedream13 Actually yeah i take that back too. Most American girls are getting prego at a very young age and now we have this dumbass generation. Also all these white girls having abortions is an embarrassment to the foundation of the real America.
@Iron_Man I'm against women having to wear a niqab or hiqab if my sister married a muslim, and I hope to God she doesn't, and if she had to wear a Niqab, or hiqab, I'd be annoyed, but it's my sister she can do what she wants it's her life, but still
I was talking about you wearing one and that country changing things up a little bit and making you the bitch and you would have to walk behind a woman.
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