Would you date a hijabi girl?

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jakeshake99 · Accepted Answer

I have actually. It was in my sophomore year of college and in one of my classes we got put in pairs for a project that lasted the whole class. Anyways I got paired with this Muslim girl who always wore more than even just a hijab. It started out with her only letting us work in a public space but by the end of the class, we were basically dating. Then by the end of the next semester, we were full-on dating and sleeping together but she was hiding it from her parents. During the summer break, she tells me that her parents are making her go back to the middle east to meet the man she was supposed to be arranged married to. She told me that she told her parents she was not going to marry him but they said that she had to come with them or they would cut her off.

The last I heard from her was that she was going to tell the guy that she was not going to marry him and then come back. I asked her friends about her and they didn't know what happened and her parents would not talk to me.

Backstage_ · Accepted Answer

I have firmly been convinced that you're not a real girl genuinely and you're just a stupid male who's pretending to show himself as a girl to take people's attention through a pink account here. I have read some opinions posted there and I properly noticed that someone said my thoughs clearly, the point of hijab is not to stimulate male's attention and infatuation by having concealed ashaming (awrat) parts of your body.

If I need to answer this question, simply I would do. Because I am Muslim too and I would date someone from all religions regardless which one is, as long as we get along with each other in the frame of mutual respect. In particular, religions are not real indicator of human's personality. It's all about what kind of person she is.

SpiderManFan2002 · Accepted Answer

As a hijabi girl, find the responses to this question interesting and some amusing.

From my perspective, I wouldn’t be offended if a non-Muslim guy didn’t want to date me, because Muslim women cannot date non-Muslim men. Also, Muslims in general don’t really “date” as in do the whole “boyfriend” “girlfriend” thing.

If we are interested in somebody we should ideally, talk to our parents or closest family about it, and meet in public a few times to talk and see if we are compatible. If we are, then we get engaged and get married ASAP. If not, we don’t and don’t take things any further.

Not all Muslims follow these rules though, and that’s up to them but ideally we should follow these rules lol

Interesting question, and I appreciate that most people on here aren’t thinking of me as oppressed or a terrorist or both for once😂💀

CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

No! Once again, I don’t date girls, I AM one, and I’m not gay, bi, or anywhere near the “spectrum” of “brave and beautiful women”.

Valso · Answer

No. The hijab is an item forced on women by the "peaceful" religion Islam to teach women of their place which is lower than men. If she doesn't have any self-respect to refuse to be a religious sheep who does only what she's been told, she can't expect me to have any respect for her either, let alone to date her.
Besides, I stay away from people with imaginary friends. History is full of evidence what such people tend to do to those who don't share their delusions, so it's healthier to stay as far as possible from such people.

SecularNationalist · Answer

I am an ex muslim and back in the day I have faced islamophobia and my own family are full of muslims so I am not gonna go around shouting islamophobic words. I dont hate muslims so even though I am an atheist I would still date with muslims as long as they are not extremist, irreligious, secular and progressive.
But I dont think that anyone who wears hijab fits into that category so no , hijab is a huge red flag for me.
Hijab is the symbol of political islam where I live.

Joseph3253 · Answer

Well, I would sure, I see a lot of you questions in other opinions are related to sexual life, since I'm asexual waiting to marriage to have sex or even not having sex at all isn't a problem. The only thing that woul bother me for sure is if she was extreme religious, with any religion, extreme religious people bother me. If she uses it for religous reason but aren't extreme religious, it's totally fine, if she uses for cultural reasons, its totally fine too.

Levin · Answer

I think we would have different values. I'm more of an individualist type person. I don't like social or religious constraints. Also, the issue would usually be the other way around. ie the family interfering or being aggressive against me. Don't have time for any of that shit.

cth96190 · Answer

Given that the Quran prohibits Muslims females from having anything to do with infidel men, the question is somewhat pointless.
My answer is a resolute NO.
Muslim females are of another race, therefore haram to me because I want my babies to be of the same race as myself.
I find Islam to be an abhorrent religion, so any female who was sufficiently on board with Islam that she would wear a hijab would be like kryptonite to me.

shaysh87 · Answer

No because Muslims are usually very violent Ans come from a very sexist patriarchal culture.  take a look at what is happening on Muslim countries. Just all violence and cruelty

Anonymous · Answer

Guys would want to marry you, but they would not want to have anything casual with you. Women who are very much into their religion, not just hijabis but Amish & hacidic jews, etc., I’m not seeing a sexual object usually. They’re normally treated with respect and only given attention if a man is interested in marrying her

Heartache0405 · Answer

Long as she’s not a feminist, or a communist, socialist, or fascist. Nor would I date a hijab girl if she were pro-choice meaning to hell with the man’s opinion. Too many women out there are like this which is why I don’t date at all.

Thatgirl_sun · Answer

Sister why are you posting this here? The point of hijab is to not want male attention and dating is haraam!

oliver4love · Answer

Yes.. Feel like I date a angel 😇 from heaven. beautiful and attractive without showing more skin or body.. And it's my personal experience these girl have a very attractive sense of talking with a shy nature..

HankH1996 · Answer

Probably not. Not necessarily because of the clothing itself, but more because that’s usually a sign that they are quite religious and invested in Islam. As an atheist, I find it quite important that my partner be at least mostly subscribed to secular values and way of life. Similar to how there’s a lot of extremely catholic girls I know who are always wearing those cross necklaces.

19magic · Answer

No I wouldn't want to, sounds like a great way to lose my rights and privileges

VanillaSalt · Answer

Yes. But how far Ide put up with her religions a different story. I don’t like being force fed religion but if she’s kewl about it it’s just a damn hat why care?

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

It depends on whether or not she's a Muslim. I'm not religious, so I wouldn't date someone who is.

LingyRolls · Answer

Maybe if we're both attracted to each other and she liked girls.

moonpie89 · Answer

It's pointless for a guy to try too. Relationships like that lead nowhere unless the guy is Muslim too.

MCheetah · Answer

Nope. I very much dislike the ideology she follows.

slatyb · Answer

Not if she's wearing it for religious reasons. I'm not religious and would not date a believer in any religion.

WonderBell99 · Answer

No, because I’m not into women.  However, if I was a lesbian or if I were a straight man, then I would

Anonymous · Answer

I would date one. But not in my country though. India. Already so many problems are there. Right now, a big useless is going on.

But in more open country, I would definitely date one. Heck, I would even prefer one.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

I'm not a bigot or anything. It's just from what I've read about Islam if you are muslim is that they really don't like non muslim people marrying a Muslim.

boggboss · Answer

Depends how would that effect our relationship what else comes with this

dekuNZ · Answer

I don't have any problems just as long as she doesn't force her religion on me plus it be pretty hard to tell what hair color she has😅

SmokyOne · Answer

Have a fling or one night stand sure, however I don't think Satanist and Muslim will agree on many critical things haha

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No. The average Hijabi in my country is a Muslim. I'm a Christian. The two sets of beliefs would clash, making any relationship between us unworkable.

Socal99 · Answer

She's definitely fucking cute and very hot absolutely would date her and so much more

cookiecrusher · Answer

No, religious people aren't very good at thinking for themselves. They aren't always dumb, they are just limited by their beliefs. And thus you don't actually meet the real them.

NorthAfrican · Answer

Hijabi girls would most likely not date non Muslim men anyways so the question is irrelevant.

Oddquestion256 · Answer

I don't see my religious views as compatible with theirs so no

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I would, definitely. I've already dated muslims. They weren't hijabis though, at least not outside of the mosque.

MJtheCoach · Answer

No! Absolutely NOT!!  I don’t wanna walk about with a towel head beside me. If she loves Islam so much? She should move to a Islam nation.

more_than_a_guy · Answer

As a non religious guy, I say it's not the hijab that matters, it's the values behind it, and when we form a household together, conflicts will erupt.

DJB72 · Answer

If she's devout Muslim she wouldn't date. If she's not, why wear a hijab?

dumbassmcgee · Answer

Depends on how she feels about Ilhan Omar, if Ilhan wants to make her barf, I'm all for it.

bean2k21 · Answer

Yes I would train her to be my slave And worship me

JVM1939 · Answer

Yes I would Some people make a big deal out of this, well, I don't

Miristheiss · Answer

If it meant she were a believer in the Muslim faith... no.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't date Muslims. There's no future in it for either of us, and no, I'm not an Islamaphobe except if you're a radical. There's simply no future in it. But I'd have sex with her if she's beautiful and she wanted to!

AndrésC64 · Answer

It depends on how religious she is. This girl is pretty good looking. But if she's very religious and/or conservative I couldn't do it.

SurströmmingLover · Answer

No, nothing beats a woman with nice long hair, waving sexily in the wind.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I never heard of that country. Is that anywhere near the Punjabi girls?

Pohjolan · Answer

Nah, dating kuffars is haram for muslim women and only permitted for muslim men.

aquamarine321 · Answer

Yes I would, they seem to be the most loyal, feminine and faithful type of women I have ever seen

Anonymous · Answer

@heartache0405 she's really all those things you mentioned lol check out her comments on another post she made. And she's also vain.

MartianBuddy · Answer

Maybe, but I'm an atheist. If I understand correctly hijabs are a religious thing right? If that's the case she probably wouldn't want to date me lol.

SecretGardenBlood65 · Answer

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Noodle_fan · Answer

sure. i run small hijab and abaya store with a friend , so i am getting used with those girls

Anonymous · Answer

Converted to Islam 10 years ago so the only girl I'd ever be with is someone that wears hijab.

Anonymous · Answer

NOPE! If a girl wears a religious enforced garment then she adheres to the insane ramblings of an illiterate pedophile merchant warlord and I would avoid that nonsense like the plague.

RHK36 · Answer

I would, but probably would never happen since I'm not Muslim.

Massageman · Answer

Sorry - when I dated, I wouldn't date women who categorically wanted to kill me.

vald9inches · Answer

Hell to the no! They are infidels why the hell would i ever date an infidel? 🤦🤦

genericname85 · Answer

only if it was a fashion thing, not a religion thing.

Guanfei · Answer

No, because that means dating the religion coming with her, and the rules and family wanting me to follow it.

htmndg183 · Answer

If we get along and have a connection then absolutely.

Hopelessromeo33 · Answer

sure, rather or not we will stay togather with me being catholic is anaother question entirely.

MrTaboo · Answer

Yes, they're trained from early age to obey. And allow husband multiple wives.

legalboxers · Answer

why not.. and reading the answers on how she just wants anal.. *shrugs* I guess...

fred_durst · Answer

if she is waiting until the marriage to have sex , then nope

Anonymous · Answer

I would but I would be worried if a long term relationship is possible because of religious differences.

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