As a religious person do you get along with non religious people?

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I loved socializing as a young child during my trips to China but as I became more religious I got the impression that most of my non religious contacts did not like me very much. It’s made me closed off, cause why socialize if you know almost 2/5s of them hate you or despise you? Most of the friends I have left over from child hood are religious, than not too religious ones do not want to associate with me and usually avoid interacting with me unless they pretend to be nice to me for the sake of my family who they still consider to be like their extended family or close friends.

2ndTryatThis · Accepted Answer

This is the great irony of people who tend to lean away from religion and use science as their god.. they put their faith in science; which was made by man, proving the complexity of the human brain above all other creation, yet insist that we are the same as beasts which science proves we are not.. even with such genetic similarities we have out-created and out-invented all other beasts on this planet - which proved that humans are not just beasts, humans are higher beings, therefore blind equality rhetoric is nonsense and there must be an order.. yet every time order is established and proven to be good for humanity, mankind destroys that order in the name of “progress..” The selfish and egotistical nature of man is ultimately why “God” doesn’t exist in their minds.. because if God exists.. that makes those “science worshipers” disgusting perverted childish immature selfish sinners, and they don’t like how that makes them feel about themselves.. therefore they reject god, the notion of god, and are uncomfortable with any reminders of the chosen ignorance and defiance.. it convicts their souls and hearts every time they see a true believer. -you remind them of the lie they live.

instead of trying to change for them, pray for them.

Still-alive · Accepted Answer

I can get along with religious people generally as an atheist

Coulis · Answer

I get along with everybody up to a point. But if a non-religious person invites me to a bar (I'm Muslim I don't drink or even go near alcohol frankly) then well there's only so far I can really go with them. But as a human like obviously I will respect them and find common ground but a relationship with them can only go so far because they have habits that are just not aligned with my ethics. And vice-versa. Just because people are like I'm liberal and non-religious I love everybody (which is impossible and BS) they feel uncomfortable with people who are religious who want to do things offensive to their sensibilities because they feel that that is backwards or unintelligent or whatever the case may be.

90sVibe · Answer

There's very few people I don't get along with in all honesty. I'm a Christian and I have tons of friends who believe different than I do when it comes to religion, politics, and just about anything really lol😅. I feel like there's something not quite right with people who only associate with and befriend people who only think and behave the same as themselves. I know I'd go absolutely bonkers if I had to!😂 I love people, and as a Christian it's my second duty in life so I gladly take that command to heart and live it out to the best of my abilities.

Finchie40 · Answer

Absolutely because in no way shape or form do I force my religion on to anyone , I will speak of my beliefs but I won’t force them on anyone , when I was younger and I didn’t really believe in God or religion my friends and I would have long conversations about God and religion and it would Go on and on and on to the point it was never ending that we just threw in the towel because there was never a final answer , When I accepted God as my savior, I don’t have any problem telling others my beliefs whether they agree with me or do not is not my problem , that is their choice and their life is how I look at it , what someone else believes doesn’t effect me what so ever unless it come down to jeopardizing my life then that’s a problem lol

FunkyMonkee · Answer

As a non-religious person, I get along with religious people until they start spewing their religious garbage!!
I love records and music!! They are my life!! I understand that most people either don't care that much about them or just don't know that much about them. So, I don't make it a habit of turning EVERY COVERSATION into one about them!! The religious, especially the heavily religious, HAVE to turn EVERY CONVERSATION THEY HAVE into a rant about religion and what the fucking bible says!!!
It always reminds me of a clip from an old game show, "You Bet Your Life" hosted by Groucho Marx. One of the contestants was a Mexican guy that revealed that he had something like 12 kids. Of course, Groucho was amazed by this and asked why he had so many kids. The guy said, "I love my wife!" Groucho said, "I love my CIGAR, but I take it out of my mouth, once in a while!"

TwistedTube · Answer

I've got quite some religious friends tbh. And I like learning about the different religions they follow, it's just extra knowledge and I appreciate knowledge. The few times (only has happened twice in my life) thus far that I couldn't get along with a religious person, was when. They'd constantly rant on and on about their religion, about what is wrong and how everything is satanic. I can tolerate a lot of things, but this just tires you out and makes you not wanna associate with em

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

I do. For me it’s quite easy to get along with, non-religious people and non-Muslims as long as we respectfully disagree about our beliefs on religion. And it’s not as if we sit there all the time respectfully disagreeing- there are plenty of other things that we talk about- but I don’t disrespect their beliefs and they don’t disrespect mine, so we’re good.

Alyssa11 · Answer

I’m religious (yes I am despite what you people think of me), and I’m told all the time I’m the least judgmental person. Honestly I feel like being religious is a private matter between yourself and God. You can be religious and get along with non-religious people when you understand that religion is a personal thing and you don’t let it affect the way you see people. I look for kind hearts and good intentions - not how many times you pray or whether you even believe in god or not.

Farah_luna · Answer

At the end of the day, what I have learned is that it’s best to hang around and surround yourself with religious people as they have the same morals and you are a product of your surroundings. When I was friends with atheists I couldn’t be myself and then as I went to a more diverse school I learned to love religion

AdithyaR · Answer

I've actually had the opposite experience as you. After becoming an atheist I lost a few of my religious friends because suddent they were in a frenzy trying to lecture me about believing in god.
I had a few friends who were cool with it but some of them would constantly try to "fix" me. So I cut them off.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I heard a saying a long time ago " God's time is perfect". God will never abandon you. Even those that abandon him. I know you already know this.
But what I mean is they'll come to him in their time, if ever.
It's OUR job as Christians not to judge. It's our job to love them, and help if we can. I TRY NOT to beat people over the head with my faith.

Archerer · Answer

Judging by most of the question you ask here, you try to shove religion down everyone's throat, and to a non religious person it's pretty much listening to someone who believe Harry Potter is real, and tells you that you should get a wand and learn some magic

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah
unless they want to "convert me" into not believing. Respect my ideologies as I respect yours.

Though, I've had an interesting experience. So this guy is an atheist and we were chatting and randomly says "I've read the bible and it's amazing and beautiful"
I said: "oh cool. But, was there a reason why you wanted to read it? Usually the atheists I've known don't really know like anything catholic"... and then he ghosted me HAHAHAH

Anonymous · Answer

I am no longer religious and it feel like a relief that all the shit was not true. I dont understand why anyone would have a problem with non religious people. What my problem is that many religious people try to force their idealogies/beliefs on people.

Jxrdyn_13 · Answer

Im not an athiest but I also don't identify with a religion. I believe in a higher power and lean more towards Buddhism but also Christianity. I dont believe religion should restrict you from socialising and interacting with others, I've never let it stop me but im also very mutual within this topic

geonator · Answer

Yes. I believe that my religion had been misrepresented by people who aren't practicing it correctly and bring their politics (on either side) and other petty things into it. I hope that I can be a vessel through which people see that my religion is the way to joy rather than a place that's just rules and politics

On_cloud_wine · Answer

To be a functioning individual in society, I think it’s important to learn how to get along and accept one another despite their political or religious views

haooy · Answer

Firstly they were no friends, they were just people you met at some point.
From where I am people are mostly religious and I was the rotten Apple. But I was never discriminated, used to make fun of some rituals but they never used to mind. And now I don't mind my friends being silly.
Also I have never in real life experienced people making and breaking friendship for such reasons.
Take care.

Pasiton5 · Answer

Yes i don't knock out judge anyone by how they worship it's their right to or not i can only respect them as it should be after all we are worshipping to the same God no matter what sect of religion you prefer,

Dragonpurple · Answer

I generally do, until they start telling me I'm wrong... nobody wants to be friends with someone who constantly badgers them that they are wrong. It doesn't matter what the topic or issue is.

_babyidk · Answer

I don’t think that its about being religous or not. Of course there are religious people who distance themselves due to differences of their mindset but its actually about acceptance of other lifestyles.

Everyone wants to hang out with people who accept them as they are and won’t give them a hard time.
Mostly there is a prejudice about others. If they have insecurities they even may think that you influence them in a way they don’t want to so won’t be friends with you at all.

jshm2 · Answer

You're confused.

Religious has little to do with it, unless you're friends over religion. Not all friends are close and not all are part of my inner circle. There are different levels and types of friends.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

As a non religious person I get along with the religious with one exception. The zealots. The ones who bring religion into every conversation, the holier than thou, the ones bent on converting. I have no time or patience for that kind.

Anonymous · Answer

I have no problem interacting with religious people as an atheist. More often than not, however, I've found religious people usually are the ones to abandon others simply because of a difference in belief.

kkirk4442 · Answer

Of course. Life would not be as much fun, if you only got along with people who see life the same way.

so_over_this · Answer

Of course I do , it's only natural for human beings to connect with each other. Besides it's not like I'm preaching 24/7.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

It runs the gamut. I've met some that I could get along with. And I've met plenty of total assholes and trolls.

libsaretards · Answer

I have friends from all walks of life, including an athiest. Our rule of thumb is that we do not discuss religion and we focus on enjoying each others' presence.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Actually, yes. In fact, real Christians deal respectfully with those who are not religious; they do not use the fact that the other person is not religious as an excuse to treat that person badly or disrespectfully (Matthew 5:45; 7:12).

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Everyone, but if they’re an asshole then I don’t interact with them much

Zygum · Answer

Religion has no concern with your social contact. All religions teach love and effection for mankind

Agape93 · Answer

Yeah. I just don’t discuss religion with them unless they have a legit question.

yofuknutz · Answer

Lady maybe its just YOU?

slatyb · Answer

I'm not religious and I get along with religious people as long as they keep it to themselves. If they start proselytizing to me it's over.

tallcuck · Answer

Religion is a private thing. If you force it upon others, they will avoid you. Tolerance is preached by all religions, but practiced by non religious way more. Nobody cares what anyone believes in as long as they do not try to spread it...

sawno · Answer

Never run into issues with anyone regarding my beliefs.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I enjoy socializing with almost everyone and most of my conversations are not about religion.

NightHawk99 · Answer

In my experience, religious folks are stupid. I wouldn't be surprised if they thought the same of me.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Their belief is their choice. As long as they don't try to convince me of their religion constantly like my parents do, we're good.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m Buddhist and get along with everyone but there have been so many brutal judgmental Christians telling me I’m going to hell that it really turned me off making Christian friends.

Jenngirl00 · Answer

I am religious, but I have an open mind. I am enjoy conversations with people of different beliefs

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

As long as they respect me being religious and I respect their freedom of choice, we would usually mesh well

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Yes I do. They're belief has nothing to do with how I treat them and how they treat me. Religion is not a reason to treat people like garbage

potatoooo · Answer

Yesss. Why shouldn't I? Not just because I'm a religious person I don't get along with people who are non religious. Also, every person has their own beliefs.

OddBeMe · Answer

As a non religious person, I’d say we tolerate you guys more. No offense. I get it. You think you have the truth and wany us to know.

JediSisko · Answer

I get along with plenty no religious. I enjoy the religious discussions we sometimes have along with everything else that we have interest in.

Enochian · Answer

When I was religious yes. I always believe that people are entitled to their own choices and beliefs

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I've had many nonreligious friends in my life, as well as people of other religions. Nbd.

collie22 · Answer

If it be possible, live peaceably with everyone. it's not always be possible, but we should try.

mrkdvsn · Answer

As a Christian, I have no problem getting along with pretty-much everyone

_Troian_ · Answer

I am not that close to religion, I can't get along with religious people.

Omar5881 · Answer

Ohh hell yeah i prefer non religious people to fundamentalists

michael1469 · Answer

I am not religious. But religious peeps are hypocritical, they drink, beat thier wife and kids, cheat on spouses and swear as much as the next guy.

BCA6010 · Answer

Yep. Never had an issue.

drexel420 · Answer

Well I'm anithiest but I think we'd get along just fine hun

Asianguy123 · Answer

I am Christian and I don’t bring up religion very often. I just feel that they will feel me and convert themselves at some point. My mom is a pastor.

IAMNathanael · Answer

Yeah, I'd say so

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Yes I get along with most people

BCRanger10 · Answer

Yes, just fine.

Hanzyxw · Answer

Nope I can’t handle it most of them

Joshua0213 · Answer

Yeah I get a lot eith pretty much anyone

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