Well I suppose you probably did after all the definition of sin is "missing the mark" which I think you know you did. However, I dont think your act of such intimacy should be your concern, bit rather your lack if internal strength to rebuff his advances when you know you weren't ready to take such a step. I am a christian, but I dont believe that sex before marriage is wrong as long as you are fully willing and able to take responsibility for the consequences for your actions, I. e. raising potential kids, which is why I have a pact with myself to only sleep with people I'd be willing to marry or at least feel comfortable I could comfortably co parent with. You need to find your own line and have the mental resilience to hold to it and not be bent by the first person to pressure you otherwise.
That's not you having sex with him so it doesn't count.
Grow some backbone. Never do anything you feel crosses your boundaries because you can't undo things later.
Losing virginity is any sort of penetrative intercourse with the aim of getting at least one participant off.
In your case, there wasn't even any contact, so, yes, you're still a virgin.
Not that it should matter.
::Eyeroll:: who cares? ... it's all how you look at it. I'm sure you can 'convince' yourself that you're still (what?)) pure? a virgin? dunno what you're worried about. ... I mean come on... really?
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Don't worry, this kind of sexual repression usually leads to some crazy fetishes, mostly involving BDSM and not being in control (like rape fantasies). So you'll have lots of fun in the future haha.
"But I tell you that whoever looks at a woman with lustfull intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Mathew 5:28
Yes, yes you have. It would be counted as sex before marriage. You have to repent both of you, you've committed a mortal sin. I'm sorry he pressured you.
Are you indian too? You did nothing wrong infact it's awful for being forced to do such things
No, you have not committed a sin, so stop being so hard on yourself.
Doesn't account for sex but rather a intimate moment sorta thing God wouldn't approve you doing.
Well you participated in sexual stuff its a sin, try to resist the push.
Is this a legitimate question?
i think you haven't sinned
yes, it is
that's not sex
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