A pastor online said God might delay your request because you are not ready for it? Thoughts?

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe God blocked me from dating in my 20s because I did not have the knowledge and experience to detect fraudsters, abusers, and liars and if I had been thin and attractive, I would have married one of them.

My fat body drove away the evil abusers who pretend to be righteous to trick people into marrying them.

[Zionne]

That’s actually a really thoughtful way to see it. Sometimes what feels like delay is really protection, a way for God to prepare your heart, wisdom, and discernment before giving you what you’ve prayed for. It sounds like you’re recognizing that the timing shaped you to value yourself and spot real love when it comes.