Do you think God will grant my request?

Question

I never leave the house so I know very few single men and every day I work on my career and I ask God to give me a husband, where I live a decent home costs around a million dollars so I plan on buying my family home off my parents for a discounted price instead of buying homes from strangers at full price, it just seems tough to buy a one or two million dollar house, find a husband with no anger issues, and have a baby in my 30s. Don’t know if God will give me what I want.

Static_In_The_Attic · Accepted Answer

As for the future unwritten it is & like a genie your requests from god can’t always be granted instantly but god can certainly get the ball rolling & leave the rest up to you to write your own future.

jasco · Accepted Answer

God says in the Bible that you have to work in order to eat, which means you also have to go out and see people in order to get someone.

Screenwriter · Answer

I'm with Ben Franklin on this one: God helps those who help themselves. A million dollar home is just about impossible to afford if you don't have a 500,000 dollar job. Do your parents plant to sell their home to you? Where will they live if they do this? Have you discussed this with your parents?

I think it's completely possible to find a man without "anger" issues. Most normal folk DO NOT have said issues. If you're running into nothing but angry men, maybe you've been taught to tolerate this in a man and it gets you into bad relationships that you have toexit. I'd explore that with a counselor or therapist.

But it's not up to God to "give" you anything. It's up to you to GET what you want and be prepared for and have a PLAN to succeed at fulfilling your deepest desires.

Go to meet-ups where you have mutual interests with the people there. Book club. Canoe. Hike. GET OUT of your comfort zone. No one will plop in your lap if you're staying home.

Your life and your goals to get what you want are completely up to YOU. God has given you all the tools you need to be successful. Use them.

watercolor_lions · Answer

"Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart." Psalm 37:4

I followed this, and God brought me the most incredible man I could ever ask for. But I had to be patient, and I did have to date.

Figuring out what you don't want is just as important as figuring out what you do want.

But there was a lady at my church who went without dating, and God did bring her perfect match to her. He told her to be patient, and he fulfilled his promise.

The point I'm making is, if you are in love with God, you won't settle for a terrible man. He will guide you, regardless whether you choose to date or be patiently abstinent until the right man asks you out.

You at least go to church, right? He might appear there.

FlutteringFeelings · Answer

First, you have to get out the house. I remember when the world started opening back up; my Dad told me that I can sit in the house all day and expect to come across the man God has for me. You have to put yourself in the position to be approach by either going to church, spend your days off at your favorite coffee shop or restaurant. I’ve decided to go to church because I wanted to get more connected to God in worship and I came across a lot of men. My focus wasn’t finding a man but I wasn’t blind to what I was attracted to either.

I came across a guy at church and I’m attracted to him but I’m taking things slow. My options remain open because I can’t put all my eggs in one basket. Get out there. I always tell myself that if God could send my man at my door step through Amazon prime I’ll take that as well.

Carolus · Answer

Are you rooted to this place? No offense intended. To me, you can always move to a cheaper place with decent homes too, buying a million dollar house is next to impossible unless you are engaging in illegal ventures or plan buying it later in life after successful major investment or being in successful talent related fields that pay serious money e. g sports, films, music etc. The other option is marrying a loaded husband. And with more money comes more problems, you will have a chain of women to compete with.

On the other hand, am made of husband material, never get angry 😡 and you can come we live in my 50k house, and we gonna have a baby in your 30s, so you have been granted your request, it’s you who doesn’t want to accept it.😁

Heartache0405 · Answer

God won't give you anything. He'll give you a situation where you yourself have to take priority in order to get what you want. He's probably been putting you in many situations where you could, but you reject then or friend zone them or find them creepy or whatever. 🤷🏻‍♂️

worthlessopinion91 · Answer

Sometimes to receive God's blessings and things prayed for, you have to have put somethings into action...

I can pray for a 7 figure career, but if I do nothing to earn a 7 figure career, would I realistically expect God to make that happen out of nowhere.

As far as finding a husband, maybe make yourself more available to talking to and meeting more men. Maybe look in unexpected places... Maybe adjust your outlook on men. Most men don't have anger issues.

God wants us to be happy and find fulfillment but you can't expect to pray it into your life without putting yourself out there and being available

Honestguyopen · Answer

Matthew 6:31-34 is a good answer for this question. Remember that our father knows what we need to survive, be happy, and serve him faithfully. So he asks us to be seeking his will first, then he will add all other things to us.

1 Timothy 2:3,4 let's us know that God's will is for all people to be saved from sin and death.
How do we connect his will with marriage?

1 John 5:14,15 tells us that whatever we ask according to his will by means of prayer will be heard. So since being married is a arrangement instituted by God to prevent us from fornication and immorality, which would result in death, one could reasonably look at their own situation and see that it is God's will for them to find a mate.

slatyb · Answer

I don’t think so, are doing nothing to help yourself. How do you imagine you will meet a man who can afford a million dollar house? That would require about $200,000 down and a $250,000 income to make the payment. Do you have any income? Men earning $250,000 are rare, top 2%, and they have a lot of choice in dating. If you could meet them, what do you have to offer them? All I’m hearing is what you want. What makes you special? Why would they choose you over another woman?

KlinkyCoder · Answer

No, I have requested implicitly or explicitly to God things like a girlfriend and even the saving of Western civilization. So far, God has not granted or intervened in some kind of plan to allow it to happen, as of right now everything and everyone is continuing the trend of going to Hell and it has been uninterrupted for the last three generations.

Jintendo18 · Answer

I’m not God, so I can’t answer that for you. But if you’re the person of faith that you postulate yourself to be, then you know that He’ll give you whatever it is that you need.

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

God will give you what you need. I also don't leave my home unless I need to so I don't know people. I am retired military and work a part time job at around 25 hrs a week. I keep to myself, but yes I do voice my opinion. I myself talk to God daily. He will provide what I need.

Greedier · Answer

Honestly no one could possibly know, the ways He work is unpredictable and unbelievable.

Maybe yes..
Maybe not..

Maybe something even better, who knows?
You'll need to wait and see to know tbh.

Wish u the best! ^^

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

Faith without work is dead. You can pray all day and night, but you also have to act. God isn't just gonna drop a man on your front porch.

NotTacocaT6969 · Answer

God does not exist and even if it did it would not care about you.  Grant your own request. Be responsible for your own happiness. Control your own life.

JSmuve · Answer

LOL! You don't leave the house and you want the big invisible dude in the sky to magically drop you a ready-made husband at your doorstep as well as a multimillion dollar home? Ummmm, keep praying.

AndrésC64 · Answer

No, he'd have to exist first.

ChiTown33 · Answer

God helps people who help themselves. It's hard to meet people from home. Plus knowing what I know of you your high standards are going to hinder you.  Good luck.

rabbitzzz · Answer

I have been thinking where should I limit myself when asking from G-d. Surely G-d is almighty. But should I ask for flying ability like superman. Certainly not too difficult for G-d.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I believe if you shall ask in his name, you shall receive and I hope the best will come your way 👼🙏

JasM0 · Answer

I recommend reading the Parable of the Three Servants - Matthew 25: 14-30 Regards

zagor · Answer

If you never leave the house it is unlikely a potential mate will appear on your doorstep.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

You lost me when you said you wanted to have a child in your 30s. Can't you just.. like.. NOT want that?

talka20 · Answer

I believe if he doesn't give u what u want or whenever u want then it is not the best case for u

Anonymous · Answer

A husband with no anger issues? That’s way too demanding. I’m kidding. But God only knows so keep asking. Asking for a husband isn’t that much to ask for anyway so I would keep asking until you find him.

Anonymous · Answer

I hope so unfortunately if you are sucessful you have to watch out. for the scammers.

Babygirl_S · Answer

God doesn't exist. Look at all the bad people never getting punished.

donnny2367764 · Answer

God cannot provide you a husband. But I'm sure you can pray and hope He lets you meet a decent man

Manuel2 · Answer

God will give you what you need and the Devil what you want.

karieskhalid1 · Answer

He will give you whatever you want.. just ask him and connect to him

Edward02 · Answer

giving you a husband is ok, but having a child after 34 is hard…sorry to say that

collie22 · Answer

Only Go knows his Will.

lucas262 · Answer

What's wrong with a 200k house?

whosnumber1 · Answer

it's not up to God. it's up to you

Dmony45 · Answer

I hear u and I'm still looking for a wife

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

If you are good and are patient

emperor90 · Answer

Probably i dont know

legalboxers · Answer

keep on praying

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