Search Results: attached to a guy

How do I cope after being a rebound?

I’ve been with this guy for a year. I thought we were one thing and he thought another. I didn’t notice it at the time but he was using me as band aid when being dumped by girls he wanted. He never told me he was seeing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How sure do you feel about your relationship?

I definitely feel more sure than before but still not as sure as I have with the men of my past. I always felt pretty sure within month 1, 2, or 3 and certainly long before the sex. But like I don't know how i feel rn....

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Guy and I seem to have a pseudo relationship?

Guy and i are both commitmentless. Mine is even worse because i hardly start relationships. While on his case, he is there when not serious but when someone tries to ask for commitment, he disappears. Lately, I'm having a...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

What does it mean when a guy I’ve been talking to says “(my name), we’re still okay? Is he trying to get me hooked or does he genuinely likes me?

Background: We started hooking up in January 2023, but we originally met in 2022 on December 20 something. He lives in Austin and I live in El Paso, TX. We made sure it was just sex, no strings attached. After agreeing,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, He said he wants to take things slow due to his past experience, am I wasting time here?

We’ve been dating for 3 months (10 dates). We meet up every weekend and he has been the one planning the meet ups. He’s been a real gentleman, he’s very affectionate physically, even in public. Sexually everything...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ladies do you ever lost your soft spot for a guy and what does it means when you say so that you have a soft spot for a special someone?

There's a girl i love, we never dated, i told her my feelings, she block me, ghosted me, lash out at me, calling me a psychopath and disgusting and even threaten to report me to the police, so i was scared for my life i...

Jamesdann

Xper 4 Age: 34

Guy told me that we should be friends with no strings attached but then why a year later he keeps on contacting me, try to be around me and buy gifts?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy is getting to me?

10 years ago, we were very close but something came up and he chose to live in a different city. our connection faded out but surprisingly he came back about a year ago to visit 1 week after he came back, things related...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Does this guy like me or not? We texted everyday and we did meet up early on and "get it on". But he says he is too busy to meet yet texts me a lot?

For 4 weeks he would text me from getting up at 5 or 6am all the way to 10 or 11pm before sleeping. I got quite attached to him but he only says "I wouldn't talk to you if I didn't want you in my life" as a response back....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Fashion & Beauty

What kind of clothing do you guys prefer to see a girl wear?

You can attach pictures to give better ideas 😊

TadBehaya

Xper 7 Age: 22

The guy I am seeing is asking me to be prepared for the breakup should I continue to see him?

So recently I met with this guy and we went on few dates and after few dates he told me not to get attached with him coz he is going to leave this relationship and asking me to be happy in the moment should I still...

Anonymous

(18-24)

So recently I met with this guy and we went on few dates and after few dates he told me not to get attached with him coz he is going to leave this relationship and asking me to be

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Guy friend and I are attached and we are both commitment phobes?

We both are commitment phobes and lately we've been frequently flying to each other's cities a lot. I really enjoy his company and he said he enjoys mine as well. He says he loves me a lot and one time told me he can't...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Am I considered to be harassing him?

I guess by me even asking I probably am but I was seeing this guy who up and ghosted me and every so often I’ll text him and he will engage in the conversation then dip again. I am aware that I obviously have stuff to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does every attractive man have hoe? Should I go for ugly guys so I don’t have competition?

I “settled” for my last boyfriend, he said it other people said it and I knew it. I didn’t mind it until we broke up realizing I had given months of my time to a guy I didn’t even fully find attractive only medium or cute...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Fashion & Beauty

Do you think this a good men's outfit? If not what's wrong with it?

Just a disclaimer... you don't HAVE to clarify what's wrong with it, you can just vote "no" on the poll regardless, though I would prefer if you clarified. Thank you. But anyways, okay, so I was just browsing men's...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Just a disclaimer... you don't HAVE to clarify what's wrong with it, you can just vote "no" on the poll regardless, though I would prefer if you clarified. Thank you. But anyways,

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Family & Friends

There was a guy I wanted to meet at the university today and we had a conversation like this? Is this man healthy?

I'm going to college and I want to be friends with people But today I saw someone who looked really mature and I went to him. and he was alone I talked to him about this alone that's how he talked to me My heart wasn't...

alicewood

Xper 1 Age: 24

Men don’t want to have sex with me because they don’t want me to get attached…. It feels insulting?

I understand it’s better than being used but in the flip side it’s saying “I only see you as good enough to sleep with but not make you my girlfriend” “I don’t love you enough to make you feel safe”….”I’d rather find...

Anonymous

(25-29)