Search Results: friend with an ex

Should I dump this person?

I (25f) been talking to this guy (25m) for about a month and a half. The first month we were long distance and he seemed fine. However, when the gap closed as in, I moved to another city that was closer to him (for other...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Why are some of my guy friends saying they don’t like my weight loss?

Guys I’ve known since college said I looked better before I got thinner and toned. I wasn’t fat or skinny but I was thick and a had a little belly and my face looked chubby. I didn’t like it so I changed it. I like having...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

AIHA for refusing helping my ex?

My ex and I work in the same profession. Things ended on a sad note and both of us are still recovering. In the mean time, she lost job and then entered another firm to meet her bills. The work was toxic as he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can two anxious attachment styles work or will the constant overthinking and worrying ruin the relationship?

First off I would say I'm an anxious style, I've always been with girls that are avoidant attachment, to me avoidants are people who are unlovable as they run from relationships and act like they don't care, where as...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it wrong to feel the way that I do ?

So I met a guy a year ago we flirted , he was really memorable but I didn't get his number at that time. I went to that place for a year never ran into him again. Then just in December he shows up , we start talking like...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do I always make things complicated for myself? Need dating and relationship advice?

I have been having an adult relationship with three guys. I like them, but I want one more than the other. One is my Ex-boyfriend; the other is some guy I met online and one of my friends. The guy I met online has been...

NicoleM300

Xper 5 Age: 40

Men: do you meet up in secret innocently?

Okay so me & my boyfriend have been together 5+ years, moved in after about 9 months together… had issues on & off with him liking attention from other girls & he lied to me about meeting up w someone who he alleged was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do exes spread hurtful lies after a breakup?

Sort of a continuation of my last question. I was catching up with one of my exes friends because we use to be friends. We all work in a mall so I saw him one day and just stopped to say hi. Someone had seen me speak to...

strawberrybaby3

Xper 6 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

Ex seemingly got a little jealous?

Was playing with her on an online game that had voice chat between players, as I was mingling with others, girls would come up to me and such, After that, ex was acting different; kinda cold, could it be jealousy?...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would an ex be mad at their friends for talking to me or tell them not to get involved with me?

We broke up over a year ago and haven’t spoken in almost a year, why is it his business who I speak to?

strawberrybaby3

Xper 6 Age: 35

Family & Friends

Why do friends turn on you out of nowhere?

I made friends with an Autistic woman at work. She was ten years older than me but I found her to be so nice and kind. Put effort into the friendship and even helped me plan my birthday. As time went on “few years”...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So would I be wrong to do this?

My ex called me and said he wants to visit me and basically Netflix and Chill despite him being "engaged" to a married woman. He said they have an open arrangement. I am completely over him and don't want to slide...

Simslover92

Influencer Age: 34

How to heal from a breakup

Time is the answer. I didn't get it when it first happened. People would tell me it's just going to take time but I didn't realize that it's so true. I've been suffering for five months. Crying my ass off and wondering...

Simslover92

Influencer Age: 34

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I'm AFAB (28) with lifelong disphoria, and after taking birth control, I ruined my relationship, does anyone else understand?

Since childhood, I’ve always felt like I wanted to be a boy, but my sheltered upbringing limited my understanding of options. In my early 20s, I found a way to access testosterone (not through medical means) for almost...

Ar15improvbackup

Xper 1 Age: 30

Should I get back with my ex? part two?

If you haven’t read part one go do that because if you haven’t this is about to make no sense. I said yea I know I just don’t know what I would do without him and stuff like that but the more we talked the more I realized...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Is this cheating or otherwise suspicious or am I just overthinking/overreacting?

I can't believe I'm even typing this, but I think my boyfriend may be cheating on me. I don't suspect anything physical yet, but I do suspect emotional cheating in the sense I feel like he is lying about being in touch...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Tik Tok users, I need some help! Would this be suspicious or mean my boyfriend could be cheating?

I am a little concerned here. My boyfriend had me get his phone for him (doesn't have it locked). When I did, I saw a notification from Tik Tok (he is freaking addicted to that and always on it). That in itself wouldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can somebody helt me understand?

I’ve been talking to this guy for almost four months. It’s obvious he likes me! We’ve been talking every single day on social media; he even calls me almost weekly. He likes my pictures on Instagram, stalks my social...

Anonymous

(30-35)