Search Results: getting guys attention

When you see the girl you like getting a lot of attention, do you lose interest or feel competitive?

When you see the girl you like getting a lot of attention from guys left to right, and you’re just watching and seeing them getting her attention. And she seems friendly but obviously not interested in any of them. Does...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is it still cheating if you aren't in love and haven't been for a while but haven't broken up?

My boyfriend has been working in the mines, usually 3 weeks on 2 weeks off, and it's getting hard in those off weeks and I met a guy who's been paying me the attention I have been craving and I've decided to break up with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do I feel this way about him?

I've been seeing this guy for a year now and he's been getting pretty close to this girl which makes me feel super insecure and I know he has cheated on me with her. They are constantly talking to each other and he has...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I get my female friends to realise this without hurting their feelings?

I have two single female friends who've really struggled in there love life's and they always come to me for advice but never actually listen to anything I say and do the opposite. It's actually very frustrating it's as...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Flirting

Flirting vs Love Bombing can you tell the difference?

Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. It can be used in different ways and for either positive or negative purposes. Psychologists have identified love bombing as a...

RoseySarah

Influencer Age: 33

Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. It can be used in different ways and for either positive or negative purposes.

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Why is it easier for guys to get female attention than for women to get male attention in the younger generation?

I don’t think this applies to older generations but I’m a 19 year old freshman in college and even since high school i’ve noticed how easy it is for a decent guy who dresses decently to get a girlfriend. Guys don’t even...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, if you notice a bigger gap in looks between a couple do you assume that is a high quality man?

I was once told that men who are in a relationship are getting more attention of other women who are still single. I always assumed this was just because these women feel competitive and want to see if they are able to...

sawno

Master Age: 32

Girl. Do women normally love getting attention from guys?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy message me so soon after getting my number only to tell me he wasn’t interested, why doesn’t he just ignore me?

So this guy seemed to be trying to get my attention. I only know him in passing, but he stares and stares, even after I look back at him. He gives me lots of strong eye contact, staring directly into my eyes and not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Education & Career

Why does my friends and family think I have a huge ego?

Since I started college, they think I have a big head. No I don’t mean like having a natural big head. I mean like having a huge ego and thinking they’re better than everyone else. Not true. I didn’t wanna do special...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

10 Best TV Wedding Gowns of the 2000s+

One of the high points and most watched episodes of a tv series is when the, will they, won't they couple finally ties the knot...or at least features a wedding of sorts on the show. Like a real wedding, "the dress" is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex still believe he was the victim in are break up?

I dated this guy for 3/4 years on and off. We met when we were both 18 and he was my first love. Everything was amazing to begin with, it was just me and him and he was so kind and we were so close. I knew deep down it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he acting like this towards me?

Me and this guy have been very close friends for around a year, messaging constantly and hanging out just us like once or twice a week, and he was the one initiating like 95% of everything. And I started developing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Should I accept my ex back on Snapchat?

Me and my ex broke up 8 weeks ago, he was very emotional claiming he still loved me it’s just that he was working fifo and he found fifo too hard whilst being in a relationship. After an argument I removed him from all...

CuriousCat2304

Xper 2 Age: 30

Women as Caricatures of Men

Caricatures are exaggerations of certain aspects, generally used to make some type of point. I recall occasionally seeing strong aggressive women when I was a kid, but this image was most common among butch lesbians...

caring__1

Guru Age: 76

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Is this love bombing or early signs of a controlling person?

• He won’t shower me w/ compliments instead since he’s very attractive acts like he’s the one giving me the opportunity 🤣 but then asks if he’s good enough • He asks me to call him in 15mins (no more or less) • He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why don’t guys talk to me?

I’m a 16 years old girl. I'm not a very social person, so I don't have many friends, but the ones I do have always have are beatiful girls who have a lot of guys who like or interested in them. I can't call myself very...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I destined to be with the second guy?

Long sorry short, I’ve been trying to get along with guy #1 but I’ve been struggling a lot. I feel like he rushes everything for me because he’s divorced and a single dad of 2 kids. I want to enjoy getting to be in my...

Anonymous

(25-29)