Me and my ex broke up 8 weeks ago, he was very emotional claiming he still loved me it’s just that he was working fifo and he found fifo too hard whilst being in a relationship. After an argument I removed him from all social media. Basically I found out he is already sleeping with other girls etc. Bit of context; my ex was always a casual sex/one-night stand type of guy until he met me, I’m the first girl he has actually dated in years. Since the breakup it looks like he is back to having lots of casual sex. A week ago I saw him out with friends and he made the effort to start conversation with me. 2 nights later I was at a mates party and he was also there and again he would go out of his way to talk to me and was talking to me all night, his attention was 100% on me. His guy mate even spoke to me and mentioned about the way that my ex keeps looking at me. One thing led to another that night and me and my ex slept together and had some emotional conversations. We cuddled all night and he would stare into my eyes whilst stroking my face, give me forehead kisses etc. Nothing got brought up about us getting back together though. When we had sex he stopped halfway through and said ‘I’m sorry’ and laid back down in bed. When I said stated I was confused he said ‘I’m confused too’. He refused to elaborate on this and wouldn’t talk about how he is feeling. Since then I haven’t reached out to him or added him back on anything.
Tonight I looked him up on snap and it says ‘accept friend’, meaning he hasn’t removed me on snap even though I deleted him. So he has access to all our convos and saved snaps. It leaves me able to become friends on snap with him again if I accept his request. Has he not deleted me in hopes that I would re-add him?
I just feel like if he wanted no contact he wouldn’t leave that door open you know. Should I accept him as a friend and see what happens? Or do I wait to see if he reaches out? Feeling conflicted atm. Would appreciate any help on this.
