Search Results: how to get my confidence up

What makes two sociable and outgoing people get shy and unable to speak to each other?

Why is it that two socially comfortable people with confidence and friends cannot look at each other or even muster up a conversation with each other.

DermalPunch

Explorer Age: 42

How Do I Look?

Thoughts on my 1 year body transformation?

Quite personal to me but if I can inspire others then that's great. Pic 1(31/07/2022): Just got my first sub 20min 5k parkrun after spending most of the year training but ridiculously underweight at around 65kg and...

als24

Xper 5 Age: 27

Flirting

Flirty and respectful vs creepy and annoying?

As a guy who is pretty confident in my appearance, I still get very nervous when talking with girls I find attractive, I want to get out of my shell, and get over the fear of rejection, but I have anxiety, and I’m pretty...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you deal with insecurities?

Its ruining my life (especially my relationship). I've always had little to no confidence and low self esteem. I only feel pretty (and a little confident) when i get all dolled up, the rest of the time i feel shitty and i...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do girls like introverted guys?

I'm an introverted guy... I thought that would make me invisible to most people ( it's actually what most introverts want lol ).. especially girls , since most people think a man should be extroverted and stuff... but the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Need some support and advice please?

Hey everyone! I am 25 years old this year and I am starting to feel the pressure of getting into a relationship. But whenever I meet a great guy, all these fears come into my mind and when I see a guy or nearly get...

Daniiloveschocolates

Xper 2 Age: 28

How to stop being a relationship fluffer?

Hi... I'm 26 female and from the moment I started dating I've never truly had a serious relationship. Everytime I meet a man I'm attracted to and gives the impression that he's interested in me as well, it never goes...

mimi-Emm

Xper 1 Age: 29

How to tell a difference between manipulative and lacking confidence/ shy?

There is a guy I have been seeing for a while. Sometimes I wonder if he's shy or tries to manipulate me. For example, we were walking from a concert and he said: Now you know how to get here. Next time you come here with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he so arrogant in this relationship?

We've been dating each other for 8 months. The problem is that whenever we fight, he gets extremely hurtful. He abuses, calls me names like 'bitch' (not every time) and threatens to leave me. The fights end with me asking...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do some girls casually ask a guy they barely know to marry them? They appear intelligent, normal and don't come off as desperate or clingy?

I am a guy, a 7 or 8, sigma type (centered, confident, social, but content being alone), and I have been honored, yet mystified by 5 or 6 such proposals. On the other hand, I am impressed by women who break social...

JerryG7

Xper 1 Age: 76

Boyfriend constantly following random attractive girls on insta, even when I’ve asked him to stop?

Me and my boyfriend have been together 4 years. In that time, we’ve had a lot of bumps in the road. A lot of lies, disrespect, and hurt from him. Because of that, I am quite insecure in the relationship and have zero self...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when a guy says this?

I’ve been talking to this guy since mid June and I noticed we have some things in common. Also because of recent and past trauma with guys I’m being more cautious a-swell as being careful of what I say. We started talking...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How likely is it that word spread to these guys I used to be friend with?

I told a guy who’s a mutual friend in confidence that I’m happy being single and I only went on other dates to get over being in love with his mate, one of the guys I used to be friends with. Mutual friend guy mentioned...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Self confidence shattered?

I’m a very self conscious guy so i’ve been working on myself because i’m just tired of being invisible. These past couple of months i’ve been getting compliments and girls approaching me which is rare for me now i feel...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How can I get the confidence to talk to people on the app meet up?

I just moved away so currently I will be living in a one bedroom and I don’t have many friends. Ignore the age, I’m not 16. I’m an adult

Anonymous

(18-24)

So, why is he all nervous now?

So, when we first started talking , he was so flirty and flirted about sex and was super not caring about what he was saying. And, I didn’t penalize him for his jokes but , told him that I really need to get to know...

Staceym

Xper 2 Age: 45

Guys, What does my friend/friends with benefits want from me?

when we first met in my house, nothing happened, when he saw me the second time, we made out, few other things happened but we didn't sleep together, the next time we almost slept together... and then we went our, just...

Needinganswers94

Xper 1 Age: 32

Flirting

How do I get him to approach me?

How do I get him to approach me I've been running to the gym a few days a week a month or two after being in a bad relationship, and its helped me as a way to heal. I've been gaining some confidence in myself and feeling...

Anonymous

(25-29)