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Guys, What does my friend/friends with benefits want from me?

when we first met in my house, nothing happened, when he saw me the second time, we made out, few other things happened but we didn't sleep together, the next time we almost slept together... and then we went our, just the two of us for bowling/arcade and a few drinks... he got abit strange with me a while after, and said he doesn't want things getting complicated as he values me too much as a friend, and he didn't want to use me for sex... then i didn't see him for months, until a week or so ago, then he was completely sober, and asked me to stay at his house, and he picked me up, went to his house, ordered food, watched a movie, just cuddled for hours, no touching, kissing or anything like that.. and i said i have to go home ( im 28 and have a 4 year old who was being watched by my mum' he's 31), i said no i have to go home for my son and i said you can't kidnap me, and he said ' i already have' then i came home, and he wanted to see me the next day, and i said oh, my friends coming but if you asked before i would have said okay... and then he said nah il leave you to it... so i said im sure il see you soon... and he said ' i love the confidence' but then he came to mine the next morning, and i said yeah we have a few hours before i get my son from nursery, an he said nah im staying the night, and then was saying he would come and live with me and asking if i could see myself living with him... and then we were playing around, he threw me in my pool, twice, we had a cushion fight, we did some play fighting, some tickling... few kisses and a make out session but then said i dont want you over liking me, and he said i said no to sex because i have feelings for him and he just went cold with me? But we face time and call eachother almost daily 🤷‍♀️And he said sleeping together wouldn't ruin the friendship for him.. and he said we have a really good connection

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Oh, he also fell asleep with my head on his chest, and then he spooned me and fell asleep again
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Just want to say thanks for the advice which i haven't recieved, I've just been made to feel stupid.😔 won't be coming here again..😔
Guys, What does my friend/friends with benefits want from me?
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