Ok, I've been seeing this guy for 6months now. When we first went out for a date, he said he is not ready for the relationship but he also wants to see how far we can go. So I suggest to be friends with benefits first. we've been texting I miss you texts, say I was thinking about you (not me, only him) act. I started to sleepover every time when I come over, even though I live like 10mins away from his place. And when we wake up, he goes to work, gives some goodbye hugs and kisses, and I stay at his place for another few hours to get some more sleep. We started to eat dinner together every time (most of time he pays) and we have our show to watch. He kisses and cuddles me A LOT. we hold hands when we go out to get some snacks. When I asked him the reason he said that he's not ready for the relationship is because I wasn't that attractive or he wasn't that interested in me, he told me that isn't true. And he said he thinks labeling is weird and don't want to label our relationship as friends with benefits cuz we are more intimate than that. so there is only one thing I want to know. if he has feelings or not.
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It sounds like it has naturally transitioned into committed from friends with benefits. Think that would be a good sit-down and clarify status weekend discussion? Think that would blow up the flow?
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He wants the benefits of a relationship without being bound to it. Quite common with friends with benefits situations.
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Why don't you ask him that question?
friends with benefits is for pathetic losers, with no lives
It sure sounds like that to me.
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