Does my friends with benefits likes me more than friends with benefits?

[Anonymous]

Ok, I've been seeing this guy for 6months now. When we first went out for a date, he said he is not ready for the relationship but he also wants to see how far we can go. So I suggest to be friends with benefits first. we've been texting I miss you texts, say I was thinking about you (not me, only him) act. I started to sleepover every time when I come over, even though I live like 10mins away from his place. And when we wake up, he goes to work, gives some goodbye hugs and kisses, and I stay at his place for another few hours to get some more sleep. We started to eat dinner together every time (most of time he pays) and we have our show to watch. He kisses and cuddles me A LOT. we hold hands when we go out to get some snacks. When I asked him the reason he said that he's not ready for the relationship is because I wasn't that attractive or he wasn't that interested in me, he told me that isn't true. And he said he thinks labeling is weird and don't want to label our relationship as friends with benefits cuz we are more intimate than that. so there is only one thing I want to know. if he has feelings or not.

[Guy13]

It sounds like it has naturally transitioned into committed from friends with benefits. Think that would be a good sit-down and clarify status weekend discussion? Think that would blow up the flow?

[Asker]

the problem is he is going to leave the country in a month. so I think he can't make any promises. But if he has feelings for me, I'm ready find the way to meet him again. I love him a lot already.

[Guy13]

Ahhh, this is sweet. I happen to be a romantic. I hope it works out exactly as you hope 🙃

[Avicenna]

He wants the benefits of a relationship without being bound to it. Quite common with friends with benefits situations.

[Asker]

Does that mean he doesn’t have feelings for me?

[Avicenna]

I wouldn't say that, but he isn't committed like he should be in an exclusive relationship

[Asker]

Yes. There are some reasons that we couldn’t be exclusive. All I wanna know is if he has feelings. If he does, that’s enough for me now

[Avicenna]

I think he does have some feelings, but you'd need to talk to him to figure out how strong and how deep these feelings are.

[Asker]

Sure. Thanks for your opinion!

[Avicenna]

No problem!

[OlderAndWiser]

Why don't you ask him that question?

[Asker]

the problem is he is going to leave the country in a month. so I think he can't make any promises. But if he has feelings for me, I'm ready find the way to meet him again. I love him a lot already.

[OlderAndWiser]

What he says is far more important than other people’s guesses.

[RuthlessAggression]

friends with benefits is for pathetic losers, with no lives

[Asker]

I wish you live a life of a winner! Thank you for your opnion:)

[Anonymous]

It sure sounds like that to me.