Search Results: ask her out now or wait

Girls, how long do you wait for a guy to call before you figure he's not interested?

So... there used to be a popular theory (back in the '90s) to wait three days to call a girl. (This was pre-cellphone, pre internet, etc. when we thought giant car phones were fancy.) Because there are scads of questions...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Guy's Behavior

Guys, is it still "popular" to wait three days before calling a girl?

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Dating

I'm getting pressured?

Recently, I've been getting a lot of pressure. Undergrad batchmates have gotten married, have long time relationships, or has a significant other already. Meanwhile, there's me taking up Med school with no relationship...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What should I do?

So this guy after a few dates rejected me saying he is not into me but really likes my personality and we are better off friends but he doesn't want to stop talking. I have no problem with him rejecting me, we agreed to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

When exactly, am I going to find the love of my life?

I am 46 years old. To be honest, I am mildly autistic. But that doesn’t interfere with my every day life. Ever since high school I’ve tried to ask girls out that I liked and I got nowhere. I did eventually in my 20s date...

DkGUY77

Xper 1 Age: 48

Girl's Behavior

A girl who gave me her contact info earlier is now ignoring all of my messages. Why?

I met this girl while I was on a holiday in Hong Kong about two weeks ago, she is a Chinese university student. We met on board a ferry, went to a ferris wheel together, and walked around for a while before she had to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why wait so long to tell me?

Last night my boyfriend said that he didn’t love me anymore. I asked him how long he’s felt this way & he said at least a year now. He followed it with you’re not my person, you’re not my soul mate, & I just don’t love...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Should I wait for her to initiate the 4th date?

Went on 3 dates with a girl, all planned by me when I asked her out first. First one I don’t really count as a date it was more just a friendly hangout, but this next one would be the 3rd one that’s romantic-centric....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

He admits to having feelings for me, but doesn’t want a relationship right now. Should I wait for him?

I’ve been hanging out with this guy a lot and we get along really well. We have cuddled a few times and we’re constantly in touch. We’re each other’s best friends on snap chat. He’s even given me his phone password and...

GracetheAwesome

Xper 4 Age: 28

Dating

AM I BEING GHOSTED?🫨?

I've been dating a very busy man, always at work and constantly traveling for work. I really, really like him—dare I say, love him too. In the beginning of our relationship (just three days into chatting), he expressed...

Melisserian

Xper 5 Age: 21

Guy's Behavior

I don’t know what to think? I can’t tell if this guy that I like likes me, or his female colleague?

There is a guy I know from work. He is always kind to me, compliments me on my work ethic and me being knowledgeable. He asks me random questions (they are questions that can be asked via messaging), he has told me not to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I asked my boyfriend to move in with me but he's holding back?

I (26F) have been dating my boyfriend (29M) for 2.5 years. We love each other a lot, but in the past year he has really struggled with reconciling his priorities. He wants to level up his career and has begun applying to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Guys, why does it take so long for you to propose?

Me and my boyfriend started dating in 2020 January. It was a rough one, because I had undiagnosed BPD and it was his first relationship. After a year, he wanted to propose but he changed his mind. Fair, I didn't really...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Was I wrong for yesterday?

In short... I went to visit my boyfriend at work (the last hour of work) yesterday, as he had to go to the dentist afterwards. Anyways... he was almost done with the shift when he said "now we are going to the dentist" (I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Got too drunk with a friend and maybe embarrassed myself?

I’ve got a good friend named Evan that I’ve known for almost 5 years. We’ve had our ups and downs and we’re in a little situationship about a year ago but that ended when he moved. We got back in touch and I went to go...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, What would you guys feel if a girl you’re interested texts you to meet up?

Heya everyone, so there’s this guy I know for many years now. He seem to be interested in me, not liking or loving. He just wants to learn more about me. And so am I. For the last month we’ve been talking to each other...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Crush is acting different/strange?

Last year, my crush (let’s call him Ryan) found out I liked him at the start of Term 4 (second half of second semester) Year 10. Our mutual friend (let’s call him James, who knows I like Ryan) told Ryan that he knows...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

What does this mean?

I and my ex have had many ups and downs. he met me when I wasn't looking for anyone. I used to be in love with a guy or so I thought but he hated me. now, to forget him, I got into a relationship with someone but he was a...

lowkeyconfused

Xper 3 Age: 21

Dating

My boyfriend won’t get rid of a tattoo he has of his ex?

My ex and I recently got back together we broke up 2 years ago because he was still involved with his child’s mother, I caught him texting other women and he asked me to get a abortion because he wasn’t ready for another...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why did my guy friend get upset when I mentioned another guy?

Hello So I have been friends with this guy for about a year now and we talk to each other everyday about random topics. Today we were talking about a movie and I told him that another guy friend of mine recommended it to...

Anonymous

(18-24)