Was I wrong for yesterday?

[Anonymous]

In short... I went to visit my boyfriend at work (the last hour of work) yesterday, as he had to go to the dentist afterwards. Anyways... he was almost done with the shift when he said "now we are going to the dentist" (I assumed that he wants me to go along). But he didn't get in his car... and said I'm going to take a walk. I asked him "do you want me to come". He continued walking without even turning around. So I was with my car, I got in there and started driving alongside him. I asked him "would you stop for a second". He just laughed and continued walking. I parked my car and called him. He declined my call. Then I got fed up and went straight to the dentist. He saw me and started yelling at me "you are following me with your car, huh"... I said "why did you decline my call, I wanted to ask something?" He entered the building and I did the same. I asked him...'if I call you later, would you answer", he said fine. Then I left. He called me 10 minutes later to tell me. thay the dentist wants to see me. I went back and he was waiting for me. I said "I'm coming back, wait here" and he did. I told him later "why did you do that?"... I ended up "meeting" you anyways. Then we had a brief talk. And he left. Did I do something wrong?

[SueShe]

What kind of boyfriend is that? It seems that the guy has a lot of communication issues.

Perhaps that he had a bad time at work and he was taking it out on you. You were certainly not in the wrong since you made it clear to him that you would accompany him to the dentist. He did not find it necessary to be courteous or even to notice you.

I believe that you should have a real woman-to-man talk with him about his attitude and the behavior that is acceptable and not.

Taking his frustration on you is not the way to solve his personal problems.

[Anonymous]

Did he even ask you to come to his work or for you to take him to the dentist? If he didn’t ask you, yes you are in the wrong.

you are especially wrong for having followed him. Imagine if the roles were reversed, you would be there calling him a creep and coming here asking if this behaviour was okay. He clearly didn’t want you there, yet instead of backing off you instead bothered him.

[spartan55]

Yeah, you can't take a hint.