Search Results: one of the guys

1 mo

Why is this guy so hot and cold and always singling me out?

Sometimes i get the feeling that he is paying attention or notices me from the way he says some things. Like he literally said to me why are you not laughing at this joke, or when i do laugh he also points that out. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

1 mo

Is this flirty singer actually into me or just teasing around?

I moved from the uk to Alabama around 2 and half years ago for work. Safe to say things here took a lot for me to get used to here. Everything is so big and so are the people in terms of personality compared to the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

Is this my intuition warning me about him, or just my anxiety and insecurity?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 months. He treats me really nicely, he’s sweet, consistent, and we have fun together when we hang out. On paper, things seem good, but something has been feeling off for me and I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

1 mo

How can I reconnect with a former close friend I still miss?

I've liked the same guy since I was 11. We’ve always had a close, emotionally tied friendship up until I turned 15. I definitely liked him more than he liked me, but we were each others emotional support and we relied on...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

1 mo

Why do arrogant people think they’re smarter than everyone else?

I came across two men on a dating app who’d rejected me ages ago, thinking they could do better. I know both these guys in person. by the way. Then obviously they couldn’t do better, so now the two of them keep popping up...

MissSunshine2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Girl's Behavior

1 mo

Is she actually interested in me or just being friendly and playful?

This girl has me confused. In my guy brain I think interest is there, but I could be wrong. There will be times where she’ll be come sit next to me on the computer I’ll be working at and just be attentive to what I’m...

MikeJones150

Xper 3 Age: 26

Society & Politics

1 mo

Do you think the White House dinner shooting was staged/an inside job?

Or at the very least some high profile people, even in his own circle were aware of it or helped orchestrate it. Trump's press secretary said, "There will be some shots fired tonight", which seemed like a figurative...

KostasKouvalis

Master Age: 27

1 mo

When a guy keeps singing to me, is it flirting or just showing off?

This guy I’ve known since I was a child but don’t see often has sung to me 3 times when I have seen him or anonymously calling my house and singing to me. No one else had done it so I’m thinking it was him and another...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

1 mo

Why would a guy avoid talking TO me but constantly talk ABOUT me to others?

There's a guy (M49) who is very awkward about talking TO ME directly. He's always "too busy" or goes silent and then reads something I send him at 2-3am. Meanwhile he talks to EVERYONE about me... I'm awesome, blah blah....

DishLady

Influencer Age: 52

1 mo

Have you ever missed a cue that someone was trying to kiss you?

In a nutshell, A bunch of us were going to a comedy show organized by one of my friends. I met one of the guys for dinner beforehand -- my idea not his, so not "a date" to me on any level. It was freezing, so he got an...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

2 mo

Is seeing a guy only once a week really a committed relationship?

Living with parents in a senior apt , no daily call on phone, how is just seeing a guy 1x a wk, missing one week not meeting , alone at market , stores, a comited relationship with a boy? 😓 I’m confused.

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 mo

Why do I always feel single and not like a real girlfriend in dating?

I never had a boyfriend. I’m 28. I always feel single with each guy I date. i never get asked by a guy do u want be my girlfriend? I just assume in head ok he’s my boyfriend but I always feel single 😓 I see girls live...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Education & Career

2 mo

Can superficial charm and ‘bells and whistles’ fool people about true character?

I find some people are very charming, but they are disloyal. Like a guy that tells jokes and opens the door for you and volunteers to clean up after activities end, but then gossips about you behind your back by making...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

2 mo

If a man openly flirts and checks out women, is it a red flag?

Ok it’s a bit more complicated than that.., so my friend has been seeing this guy who is 36 (divorced two years ago) for the last 1.5 year. He was actually with his ex wife for 10 years and married for 7 months after he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 mo

Can a guy like you but still underestimate and not value you?

I've often heard things like guys don't really care about credentials etc. But like I don't know I feel this one guy I sometimes thinks he underestimates me. Like he acts like a guy who likes me but also one who isn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

2 mo

Did I make a mistake giving a stalker-type guy a chance?

I need some perspective because my head is spinning. There’s this guy who was pursuing me for a while, and honestly? It was bad. I told him I wasn't interested, but he wouldn't take no for an answer. He was aggressive,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

2 mo

Should I reply?

okay, so there's this boy. It's been one month since I've been going to a new school, and there's this boy in my class, and I've never actually seen him looking at me, and I never even noticed him until like two days ago....

Anonymous

(18-24)

2 mo

What gift have you bought for an opposite-sex friend but not your partner?

I’ve purchased a $1800 watch for one of my guy friends for his birthday. He never told his wife that it was a gift from me. I still see him wears it whenever we see each other.

TheLovelyWoman

Xper 6 Age: 42