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She won’t let me meet her boyfriend unless I have a boyfriend. She only wants to hangout with me if her boyfriend is out of town and she’s bored. She only texts me when she’s bored at work. Usually when she comes over to my house I spend like $200 to host her and buy her a bunch of food, the last time she came over she bought her own food because I was flat broke and ever since I’ve been asking her to hang out and she said no. I bought her a designer hoodie for her birthday and I had to beg her for like 2 months to pick it up because all she wanted to do was hang out with her boyfriend. I help her look for jobs, when she gets call backs and interviews she doesn’t even tell me until after everything is done and doesn’t even tell me thank you. She keeps telling me to go to concerts with her, bands I don’t even like. She buys the tickets then tells me to reimburse her, I don’t even like the bands!! Then I told her I struggled with her depression, I’ve been pretty open with her, out of nowhere, she started started sending me memes that depression isn’t real and that I need to leave my house and make friends. But I literally ask her to hang out and she tells me no and depression is real? Her mom died like 6 months, she should know depression more than anyone else. I don’t know what’s wrong with her. I’m trying to be understanding but what the hell

Okay so, I was lying in bed this morning and in his sleep, my boyfriend rolled over hugged me, started grinding on me and called me his best friends name.
Usually this wouldn’t bother me too much, because I know you can’t control what you do or say in your sleep, but what does bother me is that a while ago he told me that he was in love with this girl, and had a relationship with her for about a year on and off, and they didn’t tell anyone about it. She still practically lives at his place, and I don't know what to do.
Whether I should ignore it, or talk to him about it.
Help pls!

My boyfriend and I only see each other on weekends because we live an hour apart and work through the week. We haven't been dating long, only three months, but I've noticed that he is quick to run me out of his house for other events he has going on. I get that he doesn't want to involve me with his family or introduce me yet, so I respect that when this is the case, but it also means I drive over to his place an hour, spend the night, and get kicked out in the am with hardly any time spent at all.

We have plans for me to go over this weekend, but once again, he has a family event, and I'm feeling insulted and cheated of my time and effort at the thought of going over for a short spurt of time only to be quickly asked to leave. I feel like he's penciling me into the very corners of his schedule, like I'm not a priority in the least. Not that I expect to be anywhere near his family in that sense, mind.

I'm considering asking for a rain check, but I began to wonder:

Is it better to be easily available and at his beck and call as I have been, putting in the 2 hour round-trip drive and then putting up with being asked to leave super early the morning after even after I gave the man a full-body massage the night before (ik, stupid detail, but effort is effort)? Or should I ask for this rain check and put some boundaries down because I feel that if we're going to see each other, he should put more effort into making quality time for me?

And should he be prioritizing me more at this point, or am I making a mountain out of a molehill?