Search Results: shy person

Why can’t I get a boyfriend?

i’m 16 and everyone my age has multiple exes and most are currently in a relationship and here i am 16 and i’ve never been loved before. I've tried EVERYTHING. talking to guys at social events (festivals, clubs, party’s,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to deal with a bad texter?

He’s not a great communicator over text. Right now it’s a long distance situation. He told me if I want to write him that’s fine. Meanwhile, it’s like I’m holding an interview and I have to ask all the questions. Then,...

Candylassi

Xper 2 Age: 37

Are you a shy person or bold and confident in real life?

I'm a really so shy guy in real life, I even can't talk any female in real lol. I don't have any female friend at all lol

MrZameer

Explorer Age: 33

Guys, what are your reasons for staying friends with your ex? Would you stay friends with an ex in general?

Hello everybody, I’m being stuck in a situation over the past month and I’m trying to understand it better so I can continue my healing. So the things are going like that: I’ve been dating a guy for a month, he was...

pinkchampagne97

Xper 2 Age: 28

A cashier lady at a Korean restaurant kept staring at me even after I caught her looking at me. Why would she act like this?

Usually the person staring turns their gaze away the second they get caught, especially when the person being stared at makes direct eye contact with them. I was waiting for my food at my table when this happened, she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I make the first move on a guy that I like?

I met this guy off of Bumble back in December of 2023. We went on a date on the 22nd of December. From then on out we've been talking everyday and hanging out every weekend. About two or three weekends ago I confessed to...

Bgurl2_0

Xper 6 Age: 31

I like him. What should I do?

I have feelings for him, but I'm unsure about how to express them due to his tendency to laugh at everything I say. Should I approach him in person or should I opt for conveying my thoughts through Instagram? If I choose...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Is he interested in me?

Hey everyone, hope you're all doing well. So I'm kinda struggling since I spoke with this guy. He is someone I am interested in. I knew him from a certain group as he was the one who created it, then he followed me on my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he maybe interested or I am making a scenario?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Does beating a kid can cause mental illness to them?

My adoptive mother used to beat me and very abusive physically and mentally. She even once called me gay because my period is late thats maybe Im not a real woman. Always calls me stupid and always badmouth me in front of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

To those who are or used to be shy, Has your shyness ever hurt you in life?

I used to be quite a shy person so i have enormous empathy for shy people out there, but as of a few years ago i kinda shed that shy part of me. I think being shy isn’t bad but if you’re ‘too’ shy it can prevent you...

Still-alive

Master Age: 42

I used to be quite a shy person so i have enormous empathy for shy people out there, but as of a few years ago i kinda shed that shy part of me. I think being shy isn’t bad but if

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How can you tell if a guy likes you?

What are the signs that a man is into you? I think this guy likes me but i think it’s difficult for me to tell. In general (normal) men are nice and kind to me. Men often help me around without me ever asking, at work in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Do I need to stay away from this friend?

I have known her since school, she was my longterm school friend. When I was in school I was shy and confused and could not make good friends so I accepted her cold behaviour. She was always cold and unwelcoming but at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this normal at the start of a "relationship"?

I've been friends with this guy fo like a year now. we are in the same group but we weren't super close or anything. its only ever been friendly with a touch of flirty. however, on new years we kissed and from then on...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why don't attractive guys or the ones I find attractive approach me?

Hey peeps! I'm an above avg looking women, shy and I do smile lots when I'm out especially with friends but still I don't really get approached. It's been 2-3 times but they were not what I see myself with ( not being...

Senn__0x

Xper 1 Age: 23

Family & Friends

How I tell my friend that she should whiten her teeth without embarrassing her?

I have known her for a long time and we got to know each other at work And she is really good person I haven't met her for two weeks, and she took a temporary vacation. We met today and I noticed that her teeth...

Sameone

Xper 7 Age: 27

Why do some people blatantly stare at a girl (like they want to catch their attention) and later deny it and pretend they were never into her?

Guy had a tiny interest in me (kept glancing at me from across the room etc and his friends noticed.) and stared because he wanted a signs from me to approach, I was too shy so I ignored. 4 years later he finds out I did...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Shy/awkward men, did strippers ever give you extra good treatment?

I was bullied my entire life. Did not have a single friend growing up. Obviously the person who never had a friend is not going to grow up normal. Women were always creeped out by me. But at the strip club the...

Anonymous

(30-35)