Search Results: what does he want from me

Learn to Let Them Go

This Take is more for women than it is for men. I’m aware there are guys who can't let go of the wrong person, but I still think this issue is by far and large more of a problem with women. Right now I know some women in...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Food & Beverage

Did a look at a restaurant kitchen deter you from having a meal, or does it give you confidence?

It can happen in the best restaurants - or the worst - where you get a glimpse of the kitchen through an open door. You expect it to be clean, you expect the staff to wear appropriate clothing, you don't want to see any...

Tarifa

Yoda Age: 45

Why does he only see me as a friends with benefits?

Guy only wants to be friends with benefits (and doesn’t want to be seen in public with me) but he is courting and going on dates, trips (out of state and international), galas with this other woman for almost a year. They...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Can You Actually Be Drafted in the US And Other Questions

No one really thinks about being drafted in the US until you're somewhere in high school turning 18 and they call you in, if you're male, and tell you that you must legally sign up to be drafted. It feels eminent, like at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Break Up & Divorce

If your ex doesn't throw away the stuff you gave them, does that mean you were never the problem? even if they broke up with you first?

He broke up with me while i was sick. He said he wasn't himself, and he felt like i was hiding things from him. That, im always tip toeing around my parents and hiding him away. But earlier on in the relationship, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this a red flag?

So, one of the guys I’ve been getting to know via the dating app- he is cute, intelligent, curious and open minded and we flirt and have good banter too. However, it’s only been a few days and he suggests that we can be...

Pearl222

Influencer Age: 27

Family & Friends

What is a nice way of telling someone that the reason why you don't want to hang out with them is cuz they are cringe?

Like I know this might sound a little mean but I don't want to be associated with my sister-in-law like just like I'm very selective of who I date I'm also selective of who I am friends with like I'm not trying to sound...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he disrespect me?

My supervisor was smoking and I was like “stop smoking it’s bad for you” and he was like “why because now you also want to smoke from the smell?” And blew the smoke in my face (what does blowing smoke in someone’s face mean?)

Anonymous

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Family & Friends

Does my aunt have a right to be mad at this homeless guy?

live in a neighborhood and this homeless guy walks by our house everyday and we've sort of befriended him, because he seems like a nice enough guy. Well, he bums cigarettes off my aunt a lot, and my aunt had to eventually...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

Health & Fitness

How does anxiety affect you?

I decided to try therapy again because this brain fog is terrible. I've had 2 meetings with her, the last meeting, she told me my diagnosis, but I forgot. However, my disability social worker asked for some paperwork from...

Wuai201

Xper 6 Age: 29

Is it projection?

My boyfriend, ex boyfriend now, always accuses me of cheating. Brings up made up stories he believes from years ago. People that I haven’t even seen in years that he believes I cheated on him with. He is a known cheater...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I expecting too much from my boyfriend?

Recently I have been reflecting on myself, mainly how I feel in my relationship. We have been together for 1.5 years and I am realising I am giving away too much of my emotional energy into the relationship and feels...

Tephra

Yoda Age: 29

Is it true that people are more their habits and patterns more than anything else?

While it’s true that people can change with time and with intention or willpower if they really want to, but what we tend to consistently does become our default or inherent nature with time. For example if someone has...

Pearl222

Influencer Age: 27

Does my guy friend like me?

So for context we’re both (now former) coworkers, he’s in his 30s and I (late 20s) just started getting a HUGE crush on him. We’re both interested in a lot of the same things like music, Guitar Hero, some old cartoons,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why hide his social media post when he could just delete me?

He was my first hookup online we didn't go all the way. It wss awkward for me i left in the morning withput saying anything. I did not text and neither did he. I dont think it was a bad experience overall though i did not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How To Text A Guy Back

Fun Texts To Send I was reading this totally awesome guide on how to text a girl. Y'know, for the heck of it. Some of the points I agree would work on me. But how do you throw off a guy's game? How do you check if he's...

fonduegirl

Guru Age: 25

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How do you cope, while you wait on love and stability?

Time started: 2:04am I don't think it's right to start dating someone or trying to pursue someone when you're not in a good position in life. If it's a chronic problem and you learned to manage it , I think it's ok....

Wuai201

Xper 6 Age: 29