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How do you cope, while you wait on love and stability?

Time started: 2:04am
I don't think it's right to start dating someone or trying to pursue someone when you're not in a good position in life. If it's a chronic problem and you learned to manage it , I think it's ok. However if it's something new, I'll bet it'll be a problem within the relationship because the person (me) hasn't delt with their own complications yet. Not in the way of "wait? You need to do hobbies or look up health stuff, or you need to play sudoku to help with your mind." I mean those moments when it's the middle of the night and you realize you're not interested in one person around you, and you're actively trying communicate but your brain is still in space. You see it real time that your brain is malfunctioning. It's one of those things that get worse over night, but you need help fixing over time. However, the only people who can fix this is the doctors and yourself (me), and the doctor, has a life they're not on 24/7 just for me.
I, on the other hand, can look up stuff, but it turns to go see a doctor, buy this or that "here what you can do" but it's just a cash grab as the last 5 videos use the same script. It's become a problem that I can't figure out, so I need help from somebody else, but I don't like help because you've been through a lot of life where bople say one thing and don't do or does it but in the not a timely manner. I end in up in a worst position because of the other person and I could of prevented it by not including them at all. I want to be in love but my brain can't even handle leaving a comment under someone's post without messing up.
HoldđŸ«·the "you'll get there one day" speeches though. 3:02 am- time ended
How do you cope, while you wait on love and stability?
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