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Search Results: first date
If a guy wants marry you and you don’t like him back, does that mean he’s love of your life and soulmate, the one?
I’m asking as I’m almost 30 and never met a guy that I love that loves me back. I never had a serious relationship. I crush on guys and they show interest back but never serious like meeting family or living together , no...
Anonymous
(25-29) How is it like date a guy with kids? how do you get time to meet&date?
I once met a guy on a dating app. He had a kid he had see Sundays. We met in the car , no date he wanted sex & we shared a drink. I don’t let him have sex. We just madeout. But he wouldn’t text much, no plans for dates,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people cheat instead of breaking up first? If you wanna sleep with someone else, just... leave?
I don't understand this dynamic. Like they should just go say out loud that they are going to go date the person they actually want to sleep with. People don't have to be halfway and dishonest about it.
GeorgePulchri
Xper 2 Age: 30 Am I intransigent or petty for not allowing hugs, kisses or another kind of physical intimacy in the first dates?
When I date someone, I normally don't allow anyone to invade my personal space until there is more trust, which can happen if there are certain conditions, specifically if the feelings reciprocate. But until now, I have...
Rei02
Explorer Age: 40 Dating again for the first time since 2019. And its not going well so far?
I am currently a 29F. I had been in a relationship between June 2019-March 2025. My ex dumped me, but in hindsight I am very happy the relationship ended. I took some time to really woek on myself. I have been in therapy...
LovelyBones13
Xper 6 Age: 30 Is he cheap and a red flag?
So, I went on a date with this guy before, but there wasn’t really strong chemistry. He asked me out again and now says, “You’ll drive me, I’ll pay for dinner,” because his car is in the service. On the first date we went...
Anonymous
(36-45) What is wrong with this woman?
We've known eachother for years. She's very attractive and I've never pursued her. In fact the whole reason were friends is because she asked me on a date and I told her we would make a terrible couple but great friends....
How to keep a woman engaged through text messing?
I’ve been texting a few girls and honestly, I’m really just horrible with the performative stuff. The flirting and flirty messages, how to get them interested beyond matching, etc. They’re very pretty women but I struggle...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
How are you on your healing journey?
First of all I’d like to wish everyone a very merry Christmas and happy new year yesterday was not ideal as, I am an autistic adult, 48, I also suffer severely from intrusive thoughts and OCD. I did call 988 yesterday I...
Dbman99
Xper 2 Age: 48 Who generally is expected to pay for the first day these days?
My question is complicated for a complicated world. The rules of dating are not what they once were. Who usually pays for a first date these days? Do you split it? Does the woman pay if the woman does the asking (which...
MerryMaria
Xper 1 Age: 38 Did I create a soft date and didn't know?
Me and this girl We were at work and I asked her to come with me to the bank. I was done for the day and she was going on her lunch break. So we walked but I kept it casual like two coworkers just walking. I didn't try to...
Anonymous
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Siajanua2027
Xper 6 Age: 30 Why do so many app dates lead to rejection due to “no chemistry” after 1 date?
It’s an app phenomenon, I’ve asked older people about dating pre-apps and they said it never happened back then as people gave it a chance for chemistry to develop over times. It seems now people want intense 5 billion...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, are combat boots on a guy attractive? Or should I wear something more casual to first dates?
I’ve always been one to wear black boots on a first date, such as my Rocky 1950’s, or black smooth Timberlands, but was wondering if something more casual would be less intimidating. Girls, are black boots like the...
Anonymous
(36-45) 
Do you think we value things because they are scarce and not necessarily because we value them for their own traits?
Like I was thinking today, if I could have any good looking guy I wanted, I would no longer care how good looking guys were, and would go entirely by personality and intelligence when choosing somebody to date. When I was...
My boyfriend talks about my ex while we are being intimate?
me and my boyfriend dated for 4 months like 2 years ago then broke up dated other peopel and got back together, We've been together for 8 months now I dated one guy within those times we were broken up So about me I only...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you have chivalry?
Title says it all. Men supposedly would go as far as laying their jacket down in a puddle for their woman to walk on? Regardless do you have chivalry. As in are you holding the door and pulling the chair from the very...
Chayce
Xper 6 Age: 27 
Is it red flags after the first successful date, you're date texted you and wanted a rigid breast augmentation and wanted you to help pay for them?
Is it red flags after the first successful date, you're date texted you out of the blue and wanted a rigid breast augmentation or a boob job and wanted you to help pay for them so you can like her more? 🤔
Anonymous
(36-45) 