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i met this guy on yikyak and although we never shared pictures or exchanged social media or talked on call, we described to each other how we look. i lied about my appearance (i’m overweight and not conventionally attractive so i was insecure). i’m (18F) talking to a guy (21M). we started off with just sexting. we caught feelings for each other and are still talking (since January 2024). the thing is that initially in the beginning i didn’t give him my real name or which city i live in. slowly over time, these lies built up. i didn’t think we would even talk for more than a week but we still are. he knows my age, where and what i study, but i lied to him about my name, where i live, my ethnicity/nationality (i’m a woc), what my parents do, sibling, what i look like, and some of my outfits. i also told him i have an ex of 6 years who cheated on me (i was embarrassed i didn’t have any ex when he has 2-3). over time as we caught feelings for each other, he told me he would like to meet me (he’d fly to where i study), ask me out, date me for a couple of years and finally marry me and have a family with me. i think despite these lies we have a real connection- we talk about our dreams and ambitions, our feelings, our favorite music and movies, we talk about books, about our families, our problems, our achievements and pretty much everything. i’m the only person besides his mom who he has told about what he wants to do in the future. we talk most of the day and sleep together on spotify jam. i made him a playlist and he made me one. this weekend he asked me to make a playlist for us to sleep to. a week ago, i told him i loved him and he told me he loved me. i genuinely love this guy a lot and want to have a real relationship with him. should i tell him the truth? if so, how will he react? or should i just tell him i can’t meet because my parents don’t approve and let him go forever?

So, I think he isn't interested in anything more than sex.. and as much as some of you will judge me, I want a baby and I want his. I love him and i just want him. I don't mind raising the baby alone, paying for everything alone etc.. I just want the dad to still see his babies like 3hrs a week or something..

So back to the question, for him it's just a transaction (I think) .. and before I give it to him, I need to make sure that im winning too.. BUT.. but I do NOT want his $$ .. I have my shit together and I am not interested in his money (he's broke lol.. like, he only has 5$ in the bank that of thing) how much money he has don't interest me tho.. so instead of asking for money, I want his seeds..

Now how's that? If a woman you were tryna slide in demanded your seeds instead of money, and therefore it wouldn't cost you anything, would you prefer that? Or would you prefer to pay her a decent amount?

It sounds okay in my head, but, I do realize that most men might prefer paying any girl than giving his seeds (and have no responsibilities with the baby, this is a donation)

But, will I scare him away by offering this as an option of "payment" ?

How would y'all react?