Search Results: relationship red flags

For many years now, I have been seeking a woman that has never had a boyfriend. I would only accept a woman without a romantic past. I am 29, and I finally found her, at least I thought.

We met on New Years. She is 26, and a couple of weeks ago, we made it official. We are boyfriend/girlfriend. She is my very first real relationship, and I am hers. I was her very first kiss.

Although, something is really bothering me, and I don't know if it is a red flag. You would think if I was a girl's first boyfriend, she would be super excited, intense, and at least somewhat clingy. She does not really reach out to me much. I feel she is the type that can go days without saying anything and not think much about it. I don't know, I am kinda feeling a little disappointed about this.

You meet a guy, but something's off about him. What's the worst thing it could be? Is it something on the list, or something unlisted that bothered you more than what's on the list?

Also:
Why does it bother you?
Have you dated someone with this feature before?
Did it ruin the relationship, or was it something else but you won't forget this feature either?
If all other features were good or perfect, would you overlook this one and date him anyway?

This is a conversation. Whatever comes to mind. Comments, experiences, etc. I'm interested in hearing it all.