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I feel like my chances of being a father are over. Online/offline dating isn't working for me?

My high functioning disability has put off women that I've ended up dating 20 in total if you wanted to know. I wasn't sure if there are other ASD men on here with similar experience, I'm new to this site. I do...

Dan_autisticguy474

Xper 2 Age: 25

Dating

Guy Im dating never ask how I was and never calls me pretty? Is this red flag?

he's American. He always say you look good but not pretty. I told him I want to be called pretty because I want affection he said we have more important things to talk about. I asked him how I was but he never ask me how...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Why do my male friends try to talk me out of certain things?

First of all, I use the term "friend" loosely because it's always when there's a guy who likes me and also ex boyfriend would try to talk me out of things. For example, when I would talk about moving away elsewhere my ex...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is this too much?

I met a guy off of FB dating back in May. He is looking for someone to date long term. We were supposed to meet for ice cream but it quickly changed to me driving to his house to hookup. The hookup went well and he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guy says he’s not looking for exclusivity and prefers to keep things casual. What would be the reasons for that?0?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Could he be using me? Or am I overthinking?

I am F17 (turning 18 in a week), my boyfriend is M18. We met 2 years ago and tomorrow marks our 1 year of being together. (by the way I am the date-to-marry type, please get my concern) I won't say he's a horrible...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Friend from middle school.. haven't seen or spoke to each other for almost 15 years. He is a good friend to me although I'm afraid of getting a crush?

Hi all, So I'm speaking with a guy that was my best friend in middle school. I've been speaking and exchanging reels on socials for almost a year. We haven't spoken in almost 15 years but he's been the only guy that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is it wrong that I'm not interested in starting a relationship with women older than 28, and I'm 32?

I've been putting a lot of work into finding my soulmate the last few years. I have a good life and great job, the one thing missing in my life is the girl of my dreams. I really want to find my special someone to spend...

Cool3991

Xper 1 Age: 32

How Do I Look?

Guys, what’s something a girl does that’s insanely hot — and she doesn’t even realize it?

I’m not talking about obvious stuff like wearing lingerie or flirting on purpose. I mean those subtle things — habits, looks, reactions — the kind of stuff that makes you stop for a second and go, “Damn.” What’s...

that_one_girll

Xper 4 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

Why did he come after me when he’s engaged?

I have a colleague. He’s very awkward and sometimes has trouble maintaining eye contact while talking. He just got engaged a month ago. The other day we had to sit together to do work planning and he said he was going to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Advice with guys?

Recently, I was on FaceTime with my friend Sam, and his best friend Omar was also there. I used to like Sam last year (he’s aware), but lately I’ve been giving him the cold shoulder. While we were on the call, me and Omar...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

My engaged colleague ran after me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guy with bipolar disorder and still friend with ex?

i met a guy on dating app. He s around 175 , very skinny and pale. He sells cars. Living alone. has bipolar disorder. At first i didn’t like him. He looks very unhealthy and sths off about him but he knows one...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

So there is this guy I personally never met and haven’t even spoke too but lately I’ve been feeling weird about it/him?

Like today it happened again I haven’t spoke or anything but from distance I felt his presence/glance and I can’t be sure bc he could have been looking at someone else or near me and I might be overthinking like today I...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Guy's Behavior

Is this common?

While at work last week a guy around late 30’s to mid 40’s came into my job and started filling out paperwork to ship wine through our company. He looked up at me and called me over to ask a question and proceeded to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Health & Fitness

Mammograms: What They Don't Tell You.

As you are all aware, October is breast cancer awareness month so apart from Halloween, tis the season for the mammo-mash and the knocker smash! This is our first line of defence against breast cancer but understandably,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Dating

How come nobody or a lot of people mention that I’m beautiful or stunning?

Now I know I am not the most attractive or gorgeous woman and I am not a 8/10, 9/10, or 10/10, but I’m a good person. Not a lot of guys had a crush on me, guys I liked always went for prettier slimmer or fit girls. Even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

What to say about the phone, texting, to friends?

I am in a relationship where jealousy took the dominant seat. Once I knew I paniced and left to then return after we tried to work it out. I have in the past been in a relationship that was poisoned by jealousy as well,...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

Dating

Asking a coworker out for coffee?

Looking for some outside feedback for my situation. Long story short, I find myself very attracted to one of my coworkers. She usually smiles and laughs when we talk in passing. Yesterday after the shift I asked her out...

Torstein88

Xper 1 Age: 38

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy you have known for a while who has never complimented you, suddenly compliments you often?

There is someone I engage fairly closely with at my university. We have known one another for over 2 years, and while he will compliment non-physical things, such as my intelligence and teaching capabilities over the...

Anonymous

(36-45)