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My boyfriend of 4 years, relatively a good and loyal man. He has a group of friends since high school. Two of them got married (guy and a girl) but divorced. Anyways the girl texted him asking if he remembers a concert in which they all went to way back in high school to which he responded with yes I do remember. She said oh so and so didn’t remember you being there and he responded with I remember a lot of half naked girls dancing on stage and kass saying to me “did you get a chubb watching that” to which i said I lowkey did. I was immediately offended and heartbroken to why he would mention that memory to her and it was entirely inappropriate. I mentioned to him and he said I understand why you would be upset I’m sorry I was just remembering a memory and it was a long time ago we weren’t together and I said not the point it’s the fact that your mentioning this to your female friend and he said she’s my best friends ex wife and my bestfriend I don’t look at her that way. To which I stayed silent and he asked if this was “resolved” I said I don't know I’m bothered and that’s it. Am I overreacting?

Honestly, you REALLY don't need to read any of this besides just the title and poll options. The rest is just to provide some context and background to why I'm asking this, but not necessary to read if you don't want to, as I realize it's quite long.

This is sort of a ridiculous situation, and I can't believe I even "have" to make this post in the first place, but basically my boyfriend has bought some shorter shorts recently... think like 5 inch inseams to 7 inch inseams. Basically shorts that would end a couple of inches above the knees and show some thigh.

When standing they cover a little more than the middle of his thigh. So like 3 to 5 inches above the knee I guess? Basically showing his lower thighs. He likes it and feels comfortable this way.

But anyway, they ride up "a lot" when he sits down and they end up being in the upper thigh range instead of lower thigh range. Pictured above is his thigh in one of the pairs of shorts.

He's apparently really insecure and paranoid about this, and thinks "everybody is staring at his thighs." I tried to reassure him that nobody is looking at him, that the shorts look great, that it's perfectly normal for shorts to ride up like that when seated, etc. But he still didn't fully trust me.

He doesn't have an account on here, so he wanted me to ask online and see what people generally think, so... here I am. He's gonna be seeing the poll results and the comments. This seems like a waste of time to be honest, but I'm doing it for him. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️